by Janet Mushi | 2 January 2019 08:46 am01
Introduction:
A vow is a solemn, voluntary promise made directly to God, often in response to His blessings or intervention. It can involve dedicating material possessions (money, land, livestock) or committing a person’s life or actions to God’s service. Vows carry a binding spiritual responsibility and reflect the seriousness with which God views human commitments made before Him.
Numbers 30:2-3 (NIV) states:
“When a man makes a vow to the Lord or takes an oath to obligate himself by a pledge, he must not break his word but must do everything he said.
If he refrains from making a vow, it will not be sin for him.
But a man who makes a vow or takes an oath to obligate himself, must not break his word but must do everything he said.”
This passage teaches that vows are sacred obligations — breaking them is considered sin because it disrespects God’s holiness and authority. The Bible treats every word uttered before God as weighty and binding (Matthew 5:33-37). This divine expectation underscores the seriousness with which believers must approach vows.
Jacob’s vow at Bethel is a classic example of a vow made under dire circumstances:
“If God will be with me and watch over me on this journey I am taking and will give me food to eat and clothes to wear,
so that I return safely to my father’s household, then the Lord will be my God.
And this stone I have set up as a pillar will be God’s house, and of all that you give me I will give you a tenth.”
Theological insight: Jacob’s vow represents a covenantal promise, recognizing God’s sovereignty and expressing a personal commitment to worship Him faithfully. The promise of a tithe (a tenth) was an act of worship and recognition that all blessings come from God (Leviticus 27:30). This example illustrates the reciprocal nature of faith — God’s provision met with human commitment.
Ecclesiastes 5:4-5 (NIV) says,
“When you make a vow to God, do not delay in fulfilling it, for he has no pleasure in fools. Fulfill your vow.
It is better not to make a vow than to make one and not fulfill it.”
The “fools” here are those who speak lightly and fail to keep their promises, showing disrespect toward God. This warning is echoed in the New Testament where Jesus instructs believers to “let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No’” (Matthew 5:37), emphasizing honesty and integrity.
Marriage is itself a vow — a sacred covenant where two individuals promise lifelong love and faithfulness before God. This covenant mirrors God’s faithful love for His people (Ephesians 5:22-33). Divorce, except in cases explicitly permitted by Scripture (Matthew 19:9), is seen as a violation of this sacred vow and displeasing to God (Malachi 2:14-16).
Breaking the marriage vow over hardship, illness, or changes in circumstance is not just a social failure but a spiritual breach of a divine promise. God deeply values the sanctity and permanence of marriage vows.
Jephthah’s Tragic Vow (Judges 11:29-40 NIV):
Jephthah vowed to offer as a burnt offering whatever came out of his house if God gave him victory in battle. Tragically, it was his daughter. This story warns of rash, unconsidered vows and the heavy consequences of failing to understand the nature of sacred promises.
Ananias and Sapphira’s Deception (Acts 5:1-11 NIV):
They lied about the amount they pledged, effectively breaking a vow of honesty before God, resulting in immediate divine judgment. This highlights the seriousness of vows not only in action but in truthfulness.
The Nazirite Vow (Numbers 6:1-21 NIV):
Nazirites separated themselves for a time to God through abstinence from wine, hair cutting, and contact with the dead. Samson is a notable Nazirite whose vow symbolized holiness and dedication to God. Such vows required careful observance and were a visible sign of consecration.
Vows Reflect God’s Sovereignty: By making a vow, a believer acknowledges that God is Lord over their life and blessings.
Vows Demand Integrity: Keeping vows is an expression of one’s faithfulness and respect for God’s holiness (Psalm 15:4).
God Honors Faithfulness: Faithfulness in small and large matters brings blessing (Luke 16:10). Breaking vows invites spiritual consequences.
The Need for Caution: Scripture advises thoughtful consideration before making vows, acknowledging the spiritual risks of rash promises.
A vow is a serious, sacred promise to God that must be fulfilled.
Marriage is a divine vow reflecting God’s covenantal love.
Rash or broken vows bring spiritual and sometimes temporal consequences.
Faithfulness in vows honors God and sustains spiritual integrity.
Have you made vows or promises to God? Are you faithful in fulfilling them?
How do you view your marriage vows in light of God’s covenant?
What steps can you take to honor your commitments before God more fully?
May God grant you wisdom and faithfulness in all your commitments!
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