by Dorcas Kulwa | 25 July 2020 08:46 pm07
WHY SHOULD YOU DESPAIR?
Why give up in your pursuit of God? Even if God Himself were to say, “I don’t want you; you’re unworthy,” you should never despair. Why? Because God’s mercy and love are not limited by our failures. Scripture consistently reminds us that God seeks the heart that turns to Him in repentance and faith.
There is a seed of discouragement that Satan plants in the hearts of many believers—a seed that convinces them they are unworthy, that God cannot be with them, or that they have failed beyond redemption. Many stop moving forward in faith, especially when prayers seem delayed. I have met countless people who feel abandoned, even by God.
But you must not give up. Even people whom God initially rejected or who were steeped in sin were not beyond the reach of His mercy. Some had angered God greatly, yet they did not despair. If God heard and restored them, how much more will He hear you, whose life is already redeemed in Christ?
Psalm 107:10-15 (ESV)
“Some sat in darkness and in the shadow of death, prisoners in affliction and in irons,
for they had rebelled against the words of God and spurned the counsel of the Most High.
So he humbled their hearts with hard labor; they stumbled, and there was none to help.
Then they cried to the Lord in their trouble, and he delivered them from their distress.
He brought them out of darkness and the shadow of death and broke their bonds apart.
Let them thank the Lord for his steadfast love, for his wondrous works to the children of men!”
Notice the spiritual principle here: even those in bondage and rebellion, facing the consequences of sin, can cry out to God and be delivered. God’s mercy is not earned—it is responded to through faith and repentance.
Consider the example of the Canaanite woman in Matthew 15:22-28 (ESV). Before her encounter with Jesus, she still had ties to idolatry. Yet when her daughter was afflicted by a demon, she did not give up, even when Jesus seemed silent or initially dismissive. She persisted in faith, humbling herself before the Lord, and Jesus healed her daughter:
“O woman, great is your faith! Let it be done for you as you desire.”
Her persistence demonstrates a key theological truth: faith is active, persistent, and humble. God honors the humility of those who recognize their dependence on Him, even if their lives have been far from perfect.
Another example is King Ahab. Though one of the most wicked kings of Israel, married to the idolatrous Jezebel, when confronted with God’s judgment, he humbled himself:
1 Kings 21:27-29 (ESV)
“When Ahab heard these words, he tore his clothes and put sackcloth on his flesh and fasted and lay in sackcloth and went about meekly. Then the word of the Lord came to Elijah, saying, ‘Do you see how Ahab has humbled himself before me? Because he has humbled himself, I will not bring the disaster in his days. I will bring it on his house in the days of his son.'”
Even the Bible’s “villains” reveal God’s desire to restore rather than condemn. God’s discipline is corrective, not merely punitive.
King Manasseh provides an even more powerful example. Considered one of the most sinful kings of Judah, he led Israel into idolatry, sacrificed his children in fire, and practiced witchcraft. Yet, during his captivity in Babylon, he humbled himself, prayed, and God restored him:
2 Chronicles 33:12-13 (ESV)
“And when he was in distress, he entreated the Lord his God and humbled himself greatly before the God of his fathers. And he prayed to him, and God was moved by his entreaty and listened to his plea and brought him again to Jerusalem into his kingdom. Then Manasseh knew that the Lord is God.”
Here, we see the theological truth of God’s sovereign mercy: even the worst sinners, when they repent, find forgiveness. This is a foreshadowing of the gospel of Christ, which offers forgiveness to all who turn to Him, no matter the depth of their sin.
If God listened to and restored sinners like Ahab and Manasseh, how much more will He hear you, a redeemed child of God? Scripture assures us that God hears the prayers of His children:
Psalm 34:17 (ESV)
“When the righteous cry for help, the Lord hears and delivers them out of all their troubles.”Psalm 105:8 (ESV)
“He remembers his covenant forever, the word that he commanded, for a thousand generations.”
As believers, our prayers are not ignored. Our cries for help are noticed, our tears recorded. The fact that we have been saved by Christ guarantees God’s presence with us:
Hebrews 13:5 (ESV)
“I will never leave you nor forsake you.”
Even in times of waiting, delay, or apparent silence, God is at work. The call to persistent faith, humility, and prayer is a constant theme in Scripture.
Psalm 107:4-7 (ESV)
“They wandered in the wilderness in a desert way; they found no city to dwell in. Hungry and thirsty, their soul fainted within them. Then they cried to the Lord in their trouble, and he delivered them. He led them by a straight way, to go to a city where they might dwell.”
Theological takeaway: God is the faithful guide who leads His people out of spiritual darkness and into life, just as He guided Israel physically in the wilderness. Our wandering and trials are never wasted when we cry out to Him in faith.
James 5:11 (ESV) reminds us:
“Behold, we consider those blessed who remained steadfast. You have heard of the steadfastness of Job, and you have seen the purpose of the Lord, how the Lord is compassionate and merciful.”
You are called to persist, to trust, and to cling to God. Your faith matters. You are precious in His eyes. No sin, no delay, no past mistake can separate you from His mercy when you seek Him in humility and truth.
So, do not despair. Continue following God diligently. Pray, persist, and trust that He is working all things for your good. The Lord bless you and keep you.
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