by Ester yusufu | 23 February 2022 08:46 am02
Definition & Illustration
Gentleness is the ability to stay calm, kind, and nonviolent—even when you have the strength or right to respond otherwise. It is not weakness; rather, it is strength under control. It is the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23) and a reflection of Christ’s character.
Imagine the difference between a snake and a cow. The snake is small, weak, and limbless, but it’s quick to strike. A cow, however, is massive, strong, and horned—but we feel safer around it. Why? Because a cow is naturally gentle, whereas a snake attacks even without provocation.
This shows us that gentleness isn’t about physical strength—it’s about inner strength and self-control.
Jesus Himself described His character:
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
— Matthew 11:28-30
Jesus was gentle like a lamb (John 1:29). The Holy Spirit descended on Him in the form of a dove (Luke 3:22), symbolizing peace and purity. A dove won’t rest in a place of noise or chaos, nor on a fierce animal—it seeks stillness. That’s why the Spirit rested on Jesus: He was spiritually calm, pure, and obedient.
Although He is also called the Lion of Judah (Revelation 5:5)—a symbol of power—He chose to come in gentleness. That’s real meekness: possessing great power, but restraining it in love. Philippians 2:6-7 tells us that though Jesus was divine, He “did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage,” but humbled Himself.
His gentleness attracted people. It still does today.
Scripture says this about Moses:
“Now Moses was a very humble man, more humble than anyone else on the face of the earth.”
— Numbers 12:3
The Hebrew word used here also implies gentleness. Despite his great authority and prophetic power, Moses did not boast or act harshly. He led a difficult people with patience and compassion. His closeness with God was deeply tied to his meekness.
This shows us that gentleness invites God’s presence and favor. It is not just a personality trait; it’s a spiritual posture that God honors.
Paul teaches in Galatians 5:22-23
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.”
Gentleness isn’t natural—it’s supernatural. It’s formed in us as we yield to the Holy Spirit.
God honors humility. James 4:6 says:
“God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.”
Admitting weakness, accepting correction, and submitting to God are steps toward gentleness. Those who refuse to be led will never grow in this grace.
Proverbs 15:1 says:
“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
Gentleness is tested when you’re wronged. When you respond without retaliation, you reflect Christ. Practice silence over shouting, prayer over pride.
Romans 12:2
“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
Reading Scripture renews your thoughts and softens your heart. Prayer draws you closer to the Holy Spirit, who produces gentleness within you.
Gentleness is not optional for a believer—it’s a sign of spiritual maturity. Jesus was gentle. Moses was gentle. If we want to walk closely with God and be a light in this world, we must seek gentleness too.
Let us pray:
“Lord, make us gentle like Christ. Teach us to lead with humility, respond with patience, and walk in the Spirit daily. Amen.”
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