A Woman of Dignity Is Always Respected(Proverbs 11:16, ESV)

by Magdalena Kessy | 16 January 2023 08:46 am01

This message is part of special teachings about the character and honor of women according to Scripture.

Proverbs 11:16 (ESV)
“A gracious woman gets honor, and violent men get riches.”

This verse highlights that a woman’s dignity and grace lead to lasting respect. It’s not about outward appearance or wealth, but about inner character. This teaching is for you whether you are a daughter or a mother who desires respect from both God and people.


Understanding Respect

Respect is something that must be earned and preserved. It is not automatically granted by beauty, education, wealth, or social status. Instead, respect is rooted in your inner value the qualities God cultivates in you and which others recognize.


What Truly Brings Respect?

Many young women mistakenly believe that outward beauty or fashion such as makeup, wigs, and revealing clothing gives them honor. But the Bible warns against valuing external appearance over internal character.

Trying to gain respect by showing off the body or flashy fashion may attract attention, but it invites judgment and disrespect, not true honor.


Biblical Qualities That Earn Respect

The Bible highlights seven key qualities in women that lead to lasting respect:

  1. Fear of the Lord
    Reverence and trust in God form the foundation of a woman’s character (Proverbs 31:30).
  2. Good Manners (Decency)
    Proper behavior reflects self-respect and honors others (1 Timothy 2:9).
  3. Gentleness
    Strength under control, showing kindness and humility (1 Peter 3:3-4).
  4. Moderation
    Avoiding excess in behavior and appearance (Titus 2:3-5).
  5. Calmness
    Maintaining peace and tranquility in spirit (1 Timothy 2:11).
  6. Self-Control
    Discipline in thoughts, words, and actions (Galatians 5:22-23).
  7. Obedience
    Willingness to submit to God’s authority and wisdom (Ephesians 5:22-24).

Scripture Passages Supporting These Qualities


Blessings of a Woman Who Lives by These Principles

When you live by these godly qualities, respect naturally follows. Whatever you ask from God whether a godly husband, a position of leadership, or spiritual gifts He will provide according to His perfect will.

Most importantly, you will receive eternal life and be in the company of godly women like Sarah, Hannah, Deborah, and Mary the faithful women of the Bible who trusted God and lived with dignity.


A Warning

Rejecting these principles leads to the opposite outcome. Jezebel, a biblical symbol of ungodliness and rebellion (Revelation 2:20), serves as a warning. Following her example leads to spiritual ruin.


Final Encouragement

Do not lose your respect.
Value yourself as God’s creation and live according to His Word.


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