by Dorcas Kulwa | 26 March 2023 08:46 pm03
Question: Did Isaac really find comfort in the death of his mother, as stated in Genesis 24:67?
Answer: Let’s examine the passage:
Genesis 24:67 (ESV): “Then Isaac brought her into the tent of Sarah his mother and took Rebekah, and she became his wife, and he loved her. So Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death.”
At first glance, one might assume this verse suggests Isaac was comforted because of his mother’s death. However, the proper interpretation is that he was comforted after her death not by the death itself, but through the love and companionship he found in Rebekah. The Hebrew phrase translated as “was comforted” (וַיִּנָּחֵם, vayinnaḥem) implies consolation or emotional healing from grief, not approval or joy at a loss.
Sarah’s death, recorded in Genesis 23, marked a significant moment of mourning. She was the only woman in the Bible whose age at death is recorded (Genesis 23:1), underscoring her importance. Isaac, her only son, was about 37 years old at the time, and the grief he felt would have been profound. The fact that Isaac did not marry until three years after Sarah’s death (Genesis 23:1 and 25:20) reflects the depth of that mourning period.
Rebekah’s Role in Isaac’s Healing
When Isaac finally marries Rebekah, she becomes not only a wife but also a source of emotional restoration. Her entrance into his life signals the end of his prolonged sorrow. Rebekah’s character and actions her kindness, hospitality, and obedience (Genesis 24:18-20, 58) demonstrate the qualities of a godly woman who nurtures and uplifts.
Rebekah, like other notable women in Scripture, reflects the biblical ideal of womanhood described in Proverbs 31:10-12 (ESV):
“An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her… She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.”
Isaac’s comfort came not from forgetting Sarah but from finding new companionship that honored and extended the legacy of love and nurture he received from his mother.
A Theological Reflection for Today
This account teaches a profound theological truth about God’s design for marriage. Marriage, as instituted by God in Genesis 2:18, is meant to be a source of companionship: “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” Rebekah fulfilled this role for Isaac emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.
Modern believers, especially women seeking to honor God in their relationships, can learn much from Rebekah’s example. Before seeking to emulate towering biblical figures like Moses, Elijah, or Daniel whose ministries were mighty but not directly comparable to the domestic and relational callings women should consider learning from biblical heroines: Sarah, Rebekah, Hannah, Deborah, Ruth, Esther, Mary (mother of Jesus), and Tabitha (Acts 9:36).
1 Peter 3:3-4 (ESV) reminds women of godly beauty:
“Do not let your adorning be external… but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.”
In a world that often distorts the roles of women and men, Rebekah’s story stands as a reminder of the power of a godly woman to bring peace, stability, and healing into a man’s life and ultimately, to reflect Christ’s love in the home.
Isaac wasn’t comforted by his mother’s death but after it through the love, support, and godly character of Rebekah. Her role became pivotal in restoring his joy and grounding their marriage in faith and mutual care.
May the Lord bless you and guide you as you seek His truth.
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