by Doreen Kajulu | 1 February 2025 08:46 pm02
This proverb uses a vivid and relatable image to teach a deep spiritual truth. Just as still water clearly reflects our physical appearance, the heart—or inner life—of a person reflects who they truly are and, by extension, influences those close to them.
Water doesn’t distort; it gives an honest reflection. In the same way, our character is revealed in how we live and in how we influence and are influenced by others. This insight forms the basis for understanding the nature of close relationships, especially in spiritual and moral terms.
When two people walk closely together, whether in friendship, partnership, or marriage, they begin to reflect one another’s values and behaviors. The Bible reinforces this idea in
Amos 3:3 (NIV):
“Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?”
The implication is clear: true unity requires shared values. If two people are walking in different directions spiritually, one will inevitably influence the other. Scripture often warns believers about the risks of close ties with those who do not share their faith.
2 Corinthians 6:14 (NIV) says:
“Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?”
This doesn’t mean we isolate ourselves from others, but it does mean we must be discerning about whom we deeply align our hearts and lives with.
The heart, in biblical theology, represents the seat of our thoughts, desires, will, and spiritual life
. Proverbs 4:23 (NIV) advises:
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
When we share our lives closely with others, especially in covenant relationships like marriage or lifelong friendships, we are allowing their hearts to influence ours—and vice versa.
We see a cautionary example in
1 Kings 11:4 (NIV),
“As Solomon grew old, his wives turned his heart after other gods, and his heart was not fully devoted to the Lord his God, as the heart of David his father had been.”
Even the wisest man in Israel was not immune to the power of influence in close relationships.
Proverbs 27:19 reminds us that our companions are mirrors of our hearts. Over time, we begin to resemble the people we walk closely with. Their habits, beliefs, and attitudes can shape ours.
Therefore, we are called to walk with the wise, to build deep fellowship with those who will reflect Christ in our lives.
Proverbs 13:20 (NIV) affirms this:
“Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.”
Shalom
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