{"id":48910,"date":"2024-04-24T23:37:35","date_gmt":"2024-04-24T20:37:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wingulamashahidi.org\/?p=48910"},"modified":"2025-06-02T17:38:50","modified_gmt":"2025-06-02T14:38:50","slug":"woman-if-you-want-favor-dont-be-materialistic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wingulamashahidi.org\/en\/2024\/04\/24\/woman-if-you-want-favor-dont-be-materialistic\/","title":{"rendered":"WOMAN, IF YOU WANT FAVOR\u2014DON\u2019T BE MATERIALISTIC"},"content":{"rendered":"

This message is especially for women who desire favor\u2014whether in marriage, relationships, or fulfilling their God-given purpose.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re a woman hoping to be chosen by the right person or to step into divine destiny, there\u2019s a powerful example in Esther. She stood out not because of outward beauty or wealth\u2014but because of her inner character<\/strong>. Esther teaches us an important principle: favor is more about your heart than your appearance or possessions<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

1. Favor Is Not Earned by Outward Appearance Alone<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Many assume that being a virgin or having external beauty guarantees favor, especially in romantic relationships or marriage. But the book of Esther challenges that assumption.<\/p>\n

\u201cNow the king was attracted to Esther more than to any of the other women, and she won his favor and approval more than any of the other virgins. So he set a royal crown on her head and made her queen instead of Vashti.\u201d<\/em>
\n\u2014 Esther 2:17<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

There were many virgins brought before King Ahasuerus, but only Esther was chosen. This shows us that purity alone, while important, was not the only factor<\/strong>. Something deeper made Esther stand out.<\/p>\n

2. She Showed Wisdom, Humility, and Contentment<\/strong><\/h3>\n

When it was her turn to meet the king, Esther didn’t demand fancy items or elaborate adornments. Instead, she trusted the guidance of Hegai, the king\u2019s attendant.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhen the turn came for Esther… she asked for nothing other than what Hegai, the king\u2019s eunuch… suggested. And Esther won the favor of everyone who saw her.\u201d<\/em>
\n\u2014 Esther 2:15<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

This reveals a heart posture of humility and teachability<\/strong>. In 1 Peter 3:3\u20134, we are reminded of what God values in women:<\/p>\n

\u201cYour beauty should not come from outward adornment… Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God\u2019s sight.\u201d<\/em>
\n\u2014 1 Peter 3:3\u20134\u00a0<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Esther exemplified this \u201cunfading beauty\u201d that wins both human and divine favor.<\/p>\n

3. Favor Follows Authenticity and Inner Strength<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Esther didn\u2019t try to become someone else to win the king\u2019s approval. She didn\u2019t imitate others or exaggerate her appearance. She simply showed up as herself<\/strong>\u2014with dignity, wisdom, and grace. She trusted that what God had placed within her was enough.<\/p>\n

In today\u2019s world, where many are pressured to change their looks, enhance their bodies, or constantly chase material things, Esther\u2019s story reminds us: you don\u2019t need to pretend or perform to be favored by God or others<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

This is echoed in Proverbs 31:30<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cCharm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.\u201d<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

True favor comes from walking in your God-given identity and cultivating a heart that honors Him.<\/p>\n

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Be Yourself and Trust God<\/strong><\/h3>\n

If you\u2019re a young woman or wife longing for favor\u2014don\u2019t chase trends, attention, or possessions. Don\u2019t let materialism define your worth. Instead, focus on growing in character, humility, and faith. Be content. Be teachable. Be real.<\/p>\n

Favor follows those who are authentic, humble, and God-fearing.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Just like Esther, let your light shine from within\u2014and trust God to place you where you belong<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

\u201cDelight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.\u201d<\/em>
\n\u2014 Psalm 37:4<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

May the Lord bless you with favor and grace, as you walk in the fullness of who He created you to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n