{"id":51068,"date":"2019-10-03T00:10:24","date_gmt":"2019-10-02T21:10:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wingulamashahidi.org\/?p=51068"},"modified":"2025-06-20T18:19:59","modified_gmt":"2025-06-20T15:19:59","slug":"understanding-how-to-pray","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wingulamashahidi.org\/en\/2019\/10\/03\/understanding-how-to-pray\/","title":{"rendered":"Understanding How to Pray"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: revert; color: initial;\">One of the first questions people often ask after giving their lives to Jesus Christ is:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cHow do I pray?\u201d<\/strong> or <strong>\u201cWhat should I say so that God hears me?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The good news is this: <strong>prayer is not about using perfect words or following a rigid formula<\/strong>. God is not like people who need long explanations to understand us. He is our <strong>loving Heavenly Father<\/strong>, and He knows us deeply.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>\u201cFor your Father knows the things you have need of before you ask Him.\u201d<\/strong> \u2014 <em>Matthew 6:8<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>This means that even before we speak, God already understands what we need. We don\u2019t need special training to pray\u2014we just need to <strong>come to Him sincerely<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3><strong>Why Prayer Matters<\/strong><\/h3>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Prayer is a relationship, not a ritual.<\/strong><br \/>\nIt&#8217;s not about how long or elegant your words are, but about your connection to God as His child.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cFor you are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus.\u201d<\/em> \u2014 <em>Galatians 3:26<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Through prayer, we participate in God&#8217;s will on earth.<\/strong><br \/>\nPrayer aligns our hearts with God\u2019s purposes.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cYour kingdom come. Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.\u201d<\/em> \u2014 <em>Matthew 6:10<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<hr \/>\n<h3><strong>The Model Prayer Jesus Gave (Matthew 6:9\u201313)<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Jesus didn\u2019t leave us guessing. He gave us a pattern for prayer\u2014commonly known as the <strong>Lord\u2019s Prayer<\/strong>. Let\u2019s break it down theologically and practically:<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h4><strong>1. \u201cOur Father in heaven, hallowed be Your name\u201d<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>We begin prayer by <strong>recognizing God\u2019s holiness and majesty<\/strong>. He is not only powerful, but personal\u2014a Father who loves us.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cGod is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.\u201d<\/em> \u2014 <em>John 4:24<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<h4><strong>2. \u201cYour kingdom come. Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven\u201d<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>We submit to God&#8217;s will, not our own. We don\u2019t just pray for what we want\u2014we pray for what <strong>God wants<\/strong>, because His plans are perfect.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cDelight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires of your heart.\u201d<\/em> \u2014 <em>Psalm 37:4<\/em><br \/>\n<em>\u201cNot My will, but Yours, be done.\u201d<\/em> \u2014 <em>Luke 22:42<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<h4><strong>3. \u201cGive us this day our daily bread\u201d<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>This is where we bring our personal needs to God\u2014food, shelter, clothing, work, and opportunities. He cares for every detail of our lives.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cAnd my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.\u201d<\/em> \u2014 <em>Philippians 4:19<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<h4><strong>4. \u201cForgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors\u201d<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Prayer involves <strong>confession and forgiveness<\/strong>. We must ask God to forgive our sins, but also forgive others. Unforgiveness blocks our prayers.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cIf we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins.\u201d<\/em> \u2014 <em>1 John 1:9<\/em><br \/>\n<em>\u201cBut if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.\u201d<\/em> \u2014 <em>Matthew 6:15<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<h4><strong>5. \u201cDo not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one\u201d<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>We ask God to protect us from falling into sin and to shield us from Satan\u2019s attacks. The enemy is real, and spiritual warfare is part of the Christian life.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cBe sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour.\u201d<\/em> \u2014 <em>1 Peter 5:8<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<h4><strong>6. \u201cFor Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen\u201d<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>We end by <strong>acknowledging God\u2019s sovereignty<\/strong>\u2014He rules over all. Everything we have, everything we need, and all power belongs to Him.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cTo Him be glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.\u201d<\/em> \u2014 <em>1 Peter 5:11<\/em><br \/>\n<em>\u201cI am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End.\u201d<\/em> \u2014 <em>Revelation 22:13<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Don&#8217;t focus on using perfect words or the &#8220;right&#8221; language. God sees your heart. Just make sure your prayer includes:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Honor and praise to God<\/li>\n<li>A desire for His will<\/li>\n<li>Requests for daily needs<\/li>\n<li>A heart of forgiveness<\/li>\n<li>Protection from sin and evil<\/li>\n<li>Thanksgiving and surrender<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>That\u2019s what real, powerful prayer looks like.<\/strong> Prayer is not performance\u2014<strong>it&#8217;s a relationship with the living God.<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>\u201cThe effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much.\u201d<\/em> \u2014 <em>James 5:16<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div class='share-to-whatsapp-wrapper'><div class='share-on-whsp'>Share on: <\/div><a data-text='Understanding How to Pray' data-link='https:\/\/wingulamashahidi.org\/en\/2019\/10\/03\/understanding-how-to-pray\/' class='whatsapp-button whatsapp-share'>WhatsApp<\/a><div class='clear '><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the first questions people often ask after giving their lives to Jesus Christ is: \u201cHow do I pray?\u201d or \u201cWhat should I say so that God hears me?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1225,"featured_media":40781,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"episode_type":"audio","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[16929],"tags":[],"series":[],"class_list":["post-51068","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-home-en"],"episode_featured_image":"https:\/\/wingulamashahidi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/istockphoto-174691889-612x612-1.jpg","episode_player_image":"https:\/\/wingulamashahidi.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/istockphoto-174691889-612x612-1.jpg","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"https:\/\/wingulamashahidi.org\/en\/feed\/podcast\/wingu-la-mashahidi","embedCode":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"aYbyJHL0mD\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wingulamashahidi.org\/en\/2019\/10\/03\/understanding-how-to-pray\/\">Understanding How to Pray<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/wingulamashahidi.org\/en\/2019\/10\/03\/understanding-how-to-pray\/embed\/#?secret=aYbyJHL0mD\" width=\"500\" height=\"350\" title=\"&#8220;Understanding How to Pray&#8221; &#8212; Wingu la Mashahidi\" data-secret=\"aYbyJHL0mD\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! 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