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What Does the Bible Say About Flattering Others? (Proverbs 29:5)

QUESTION: What is the message in

Proverbs 29:5?“A man who flatters his neighbor spreads a net for his feet.” 

ANSWER:
Proverbs 29:5 provides a cautionary message about the dangers of flattery.

In biblical theology, flattery is more than just excessive praise; it involves giving false admiration to someone with the hidden agenda of gaining personal benefit. The Bible warns against such behavior because it is manipulative and ultimately harmful.

Flattery is not given out of genuine appreciation but with the ulterior motive of seeking favor, position, or some form of reward. Proverbs 29:5 warns that when you flatter someone, you are essentially setting a trap for them:

“spreading a net for their feet” (Proverbs 29:5, ESV).

The net metaphor here is significant in biblical literature. A net, or snare, symbolizes entrapment and harm. In this context, the flattery is compared to a trap that entices someone to fall into it, leading to their downfall.

Flattery often involves overstating someone’s virtues, exaggerating their good qualities, or even keeping silent about their faults to make them feel good. This false praise is done with the goal of achieving something for oneself—whether it is to be favored, promoted, given special treatment, or to gain influence. The book of Proverbs warns that such actions are deceitful and will only lead to harm, both for the one who is being flattered and the one who is doing the flattering.

Biblical Examples of Flattery’s Danger:

  1. King Zedekiah and the False Prophets
    A powerful biblical example is the story of King Zedekiah of Judah, who listened to the false prophets instead of the true prophet, Jeremiah. The false prophets flattered Zedekiah with lies, telling him that God would give him victory and protect Judah, even though their message was not from God. Jeremiah, on the other hand, spoke the truth, warning Zedekiah of God’s judgment. The king refused to listen, and as a result, Judah was destroyed, and Zedekiah’s life was ruined. His eyes were gouged out, and he was taken into exile (Jeremiah 34-41).

    This story exemplifies the danger of listening to those who flatter for personal gain. The false prophets were more interested in maintaining their position of power by pleasing the king, rather than speaking the truth. The tragic result was that Zedekiah fell into a trap, leading to his destruction.

  2. King Ahab and the 400 False Prophets
    Another biblical example is King Ahab, who was deceived by 400 false prophets who flattered him by prophesying victory in battle, even though God had already condemned him (1 Kings 22:6-23). Ahab refused to listen to the prophet Micaiah, who spoke the truth, and instead trusted in the flattering words of the false prophets. The result was that Ahab was killed in battle, showing the consequences of relying on false praise and ignoring the truth.

Theological Significance of Proverbs 29:5

In Christian theology, flattery is viewed as a form of deceit that undermines genuine relationships. It distorts the truth and manipulates others for selfish purposes. Proverbs 29:5 serves as a reminder of the importance of truthfulness and integrity in our interactions. Jesus himself spoke against hypocrisy and deceit. In Matthew 23:27 (NIV), He condemned the Pharisees for their outward displays of righteousness while inwardly being corrupt, likening them to whitewashed tombs. This echoes the danger of flattery—it’s an outward show of praise that covers up true intentions, which can be harmful both to the individual and to the community.

The Role of Integrity in the Christian Life

Flattery goes against the biblical call for Christians to live with integrity, honesty, and love. The Apostle Paul wrote to the Corinthians about the need for sincerity in ministry:

“For we never came with words of flattery, as you know, nor with a pretext for greed—God is witness.” (1 Thessalonians 2:5, ESV).

Paul emphasizes that his ministry was rooted in sincerity, not in manipulating others for personal gain. The same principle applies in our everyday lives: Christians are called to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) and to avoid using others for selfish purposes.

What Can We Learn from Proverbs 29:5?

The Bible does not only warn us about others who may flatter us but also cautions us about engaging in flattery ourselves. While it can be tempting to use flattery to gain favor or avoid conflict, Proverbs 29:5 teaches us that this is ultimately a deceitful practice that leads to harm.

Flattering others may seem harmless at first, but it can lead to destructive consequences, both for the one who is flattered and the one who flatters. When we flatter someone, we may be leading them down a path of pride, false security, or even destruction. In this sense, flattery is not love; true love speaks the truth, even when it’s difficult.

Conclusion

Proverbs 29:5 teaches us to be wary of flattery, whether from others or from ourselves. Flattery is a form of deception that sets traps, and in the end, it leads to harm. The Bible calls us to embrace truth, integrity, and sincerity in our relationships, as exemplified by Jesus and the apostles. Instead of using flattery to manipulate others for personal gain, we are called to love others honestly and sincerely, helping them grow in truth and wisdom.

May the Lord bless you with wisdom and discernment.


 

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The Joy of the Lord Is Your Strength

Text: Nehemiah 8:10

“Then he said to them, ‘Go your way, eat the fat, drink the sweet, and send portions to those for whom nothing is prepared; for this day is holy to our Lord. Do not sorrow, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.’”

Restoration After Exile

In Nehemiah 8, Israel had just completed rebuilding the wall of Jerusalem after returning from Babylonian exile. The physical restoration of the city was complete—but God’s concern was not only for the wall, but for the hearts of His people. Spiritual restoration was equally important.

Ezra the scribe read the Book of the Law (likely the Torah) aloud to the people. This was a public spiritual awakening. Many were hearing God’s Word for the first time in decades. Their immediate response was grief and weeping as they became aware of their sins. According to the Law, they had failed God repeatedly, and judgment had followed (cf. Deuteronomy 28).

Yet in that very moment, something profound happened. Nehemiah, along with Ezra and the Levites, urged the people not to weep. Why?

Because while conviction is necessary, God’s ultimate desire is not to shame or crush us—it’s to restore and empower us.


Joy as Strength

Nehemiah said, “The joy of the Lord is your strength.” This isn’t mere encouragement—it’s a deep theological truth:

  • Joy is not a denial of sin, but a response to grace. After repentance comes renewal. The people were mourning their failures, but God wanted them to celebrate His mercy.
  • Joy is rooted in God’s character, not our performance. The Hebrew word for “joy” (chedvah) here refers to gladness that springs from God’s own delight in His people (cf. Zephaniah 3:17 — “He will rejoice over you with gladness…”).
  • Strength comes from joy, because joy restores confidence, hope, and spiritual energy. Guilt paralyzes, but joy empowers. When we rejoice in God’s mercy, we gain the strength to live righteously.

“Therefore with joy you will draw water from the wells of salvation.” — Isaiah 12:3

This verse echoes the same theme: salvation is a well, but joy is the bucket that draws the strength from it.


Conviction vs. Condemnation

Too often, believers confuse conviction (from the Holy Spirit) with condemnation (from Satan). The Holy Spirit convicts to bring us back to the Father (John 16:8), while Satan condemns to drive us away from Him (Revelation 12:10).

That’s why when the Bible exposes sin in your life, your response should not be despair. It should be:

  1. Repentance — turning back to God in sincerity.
  2. Renewal — accepting His forgiveness and moving forward in faith.
  3. Rejoicing — celebrating the grace that restores.

“There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus…” — Romans 8:1

Even the psalmist found comfort in God’s discipline:

“I remembered Your judgments of old, O Lord, and have comforted myself.” — Psalm 119:52


Illustration: Like a Team Regrouping

Think of a football team that performs poorly in the first half. During halftime, they can either sulk and lose all motivation—or regroup, encourage one another, and come back stronger. Likewise, when God convicts you, it’s your spiritual “halftime.” Don’t stay in shame. Let His love revive you.


Let Joy Lead You to Obedience

When you delight in God’s Word—even His rebukes—you gain strength to obey:

“Great peace have those who love Your law, and nothing causes them to stumble.” — Psalm 119:165

You can’t obey what you don’t love. And you can’t love what you only fear. But when you see God’s correction as love, you respond not just with obedience, but with joyful obedience.


Strength Through Joy

The joy of the Lord is not optional—it is essential. It’s what fuels your Christian walk. When you understand God’s heart—full of grace and truth—you won’t stay stuck in sorrow. You’ll rise up in joy, and from that joy comes strength to live faithfully.

So the next time you feel convicted while reading Scripture, don’t give up. Don’t stay down.

Repent. Rejoice. Rise up.

Because the joy of the Lord is your strength.


Blessing

May the Lord fill your heart with His joy and renew your strength day by day.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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Do Not… Do Not… Do Not…

Do not! Do not! Do not! — and not “Don’t!”…

God’s commands say: “You shall not kill,” “You shall not commit adultery,” “You shall not steal,” — not “Don’t steal,” “Don’t kill,” or “Don’t commit adultery.” This shows that God is speaking personally to each individual. He says these things to me personally, and He says them to you personally. He does not address all of us together as a group.

Exodus 20:13-17 says:
“You shall not murder.
You shall not commit adultery.
You shall not steal.
You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.
You shall not covet your neighbor’s house…”

On Judgment Day, we will not be judged as a crowd; each person will stand alone and bear their own burden.

Galatians 6:5 says:
“For each will have to bear his own load.”

And each of us will give an account individually, not together with someone else.

Romans 14:12 says:
“So then each of us will give an account of himself to God.”

If that’s the case, why let your boss wrong you? Why let a friend wrong you? Why let people hurt you? Because when that day comes, you will stand alone.

Remember, if you commit adultery, you will not stand alongside the person you sinned with — you will stand alone, because that command applies to you personally. God was speaking to you individually, not to you and your partner together.

If you steal, you will not stand with the one who tempted you or with your accomplice. You will stand alone, and they will stand alone, because the command “You shall not steal” was given to each person individually.

It’s the same if you murder, or honor your parents, or obey any of God’s commands.

God’s judgment is serious.

May the Lord help us.

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BE CAREFUL OF WILD GOURDS — THESE ARE THE LAST DAYS

📖 2 Kings 4:38–41 

“And Elisha came again to Gilgal, when there was a famine in the land. And as the sons of the prophets were sitting before him, he said to his servant, ‘Set on the large pot, and boil stew for the sons of the prophets.’
One of them went out into the field to gather herbs, and found a wild vine and gathered from it his lap full of wild gourds, and came and cut them up into the pot of stew, not knowing what they were.
And they poured out some for the men to eat. But while they were eating of the stew, they cried out, ‘O man of God, there is death in the pot!’ And they could not eat it.
He said, ‘Then bring flour.’ And he threw it into the pot and said, ‘Pour some out for the men, that they may eat.’ And there was no harm in the pot.”


1. Spiritual Famine Leads to Desperation

In this passage, Elisha and the sons of the prophets are in a famine. Food is scarce, and the hunger is real. One of the men goes out to gather something—anything—that seems edible. He finds wild gourds, which he assumes are good, but they are actually poisonous.

🔍 Just like physical famine leads to eating whatever is available, spiritual famine—a lack of sound teaching—can cause people to consume spiritual poison without realizing it.

Amos 8:11 
“Behold, the days are coming,” declares the Lord God, “when I will send a famine on the land—not a famine of bread, nor a thirst for water, but of hearing the words of the Lord.”

Today, we are in a time when many are spiritually hungry, but instead of turning to Scripture, people are turning to attractive, deceptive teachings that feel good but lack truth.


2. Not All “Good” Teachings Are Godly

The man in 2 Kings 4 had good intentions, but he lacked discernment. What he added to the pot looked edible—it even looked nourishing—but it brought death.

🛑 Modern Application:
This is how false teachings enter the church today. They appear biblical. They sound encouraging. But they are deadly because they distort or deny key truths about the Gospel.

Examples include:

  • Hyper-grace teaching: “You’re saved by grace, so your actions don’t matter.”
  • Prosperity gospel: “God wants you rich now; suffering isn’t part of God’s will.”
  • Universalism: “Everyone will be saved in the end, no matter what they believe.”
  • Denial of the end times: “There’s no rapture, no judgment; focus on success now.”

2 Timothy 4:3–4
“For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions, and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths.”


3. False Teachers Often Appear Innocent

Jesus warned that false prophets would come looking innocent but inwardly be dangerous.

Matthew 7:15
“Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves.”

Today’s false teachers may quote Scripture, wear collars, write books, or build mega-platforms. But if they don’t preach Christ crucified, repentance, and holy living, they are not feeding your soul—they’re poisoning it.


4. The Word of God Is the Cure

In the story, Elisha doesn’t throw away the pot of stew. He throws in flour, symbolizing the Word of God—and the stew is healed.

Psalm 107:20 
“He sent out his word and healed them, and delivered them from their destruction.”

Just as flour purified the poisoned pot, God’s pure Word can correct false teaching, restore spiritual health, and bring clarity where there’s confusion.


5. The Christian Life Requires Holiness and Watchfulness

Modern teachings that eliminate holiness, ignore judgment, and focus only on earthly success are like wild gourds. If you consume them, you risk spiritual death.

Hebrews 12:14 
“Strive for peace with everyone, and for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord.”

And Jesus reminded us to stay ready for His return:

Luke 12:35–36 
“Stay dressed for action and keep your lamps burning, and be like men who are waiting for their master to come home from the wedding feast, so that they may open the door to him at once when he comes and knocks.”

Our focus must remain on Christ, on eternity, and on living lives that reflect His character.

Be Discerning in What You “Eat” Spiritually

When you’re spiritually hungry, be careful what you consume. Just because something is popular, well-presented, or “feels good” doesn’t mean it’s true. Always test the teaching by the Word of God.

1 John 4:1 
“Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world.”

Not everything that fills you feeds you.
Beware of wild gourds.

Stay in the Word. Walk in holiness. Wait for Christ.
May the Lord bless you and keep you.

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Let Your Hair Teach You: The Voice of God

Why did God create you exactly the way you are? Why didn’t He give you horns on your head, or fleshy crests like those of a rooster, or two antennas like a snail or insect? Instead, He placed hair on your head.

The voice of God is revealed in our very design. The way we are made is not because this is the most beautiful or perfect form God could imagine for man. No — He could have created us in many more “impressive” ways. But He made us this way with a unique divine purpose. Our form is not primarily about beauty but about function and revelation.

For example: if you cannot understand how the organs of your own body work together, you will also fail to grasp how the Body of Christ is meant to function when it gathers. Scripture says, “If one member suffers, all the members suffer with it” (1 Corinthians 12:26). We are created with divine intention — not for outward perfection, but for spiritual lessons.

It is like being asked: between a cooking stove and flowers, which is more important in your house? Most people would choose the stove — not because it looks better, but because it serves an essential purpose. In the same way, every part of your body is designed with meaning, to teach you something about your Creator and your walk with Him.

Today, let us consider the spiritual lessons of our hair. Another time, we will look at other parts of the body.


1. All Your Affairs Are Counted by God

“Even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. So don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.” (Matthew 10:30–31)

When trials come, it is easy to think that God does not see or care. But Jesus reminds us that if the Father has counted even the countless hairs on our heads, then every detail of our lives is under His watchful care. Nothing happens outside His knowledge and permission.

Application:
When you feel anxious or forgotten, remember: your hair is a daily testimony that God has already numbered your steps (Psalm 139:16).


2. You Cannot Escape Enemies

“Those who hate me without cause are more than the hairs of my head; those who would destroy me are powerful, my enemies without reason.” (Psalm 69:4)

Just as your hair is numerous, so also are your adversaries. But the Bible makes clear that

“our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against rulers, authorities, and powers of this dark world” (Ephesians 6:12).

Even Jesus — who was sinless — faced constant opposition. Why then should we be surprised when enemies rise against us? The call is to remain steadfast in prayer and walk in the ways of the Lord, for victory belongs to Him (Romans 8:37).


3. You Cannot Control Everything — Practice Self-Limitation

“Do not swear by your head, for you cannot make even one hair white or black.” (Matthew 5:36)

We often deceive ourselves into thinking we are in full control. But Jesus reminds us that even something as small as a single strand of hair is beyond our power.

Application:
Avoid rash vows and exaggerated promises. Let your words be simple and true: “Let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No’” (Matthew 5:37). Anything beyond this comes from the evil one. Remember: your hair testifies daily that life is sustained by God, not your own control.


4. Value Your Spiritual Strength

Your hair also symbolizes spiritual power. The Nazarites of the Old Testament were forbidden to cut their hair as a sign of consecration (Numbers 6:5). Samson’s strength was tied to his uncut hair as part of his covenant with God. When Delilah cut it, his strength departed (Judges 16:19–20).

Yet Scripture also says:

“But the hair of his head began to grow again after it had been shaved.” (Judges 16:22).

Application:
Guard your spiritual strength! Sin and compromise allow the enemy to shear away your power. Though God can restore, restoration often comes with scars. Samson regained his strength, but only after he lost his eyesight and faced death. Treasure the anointing you have; do not let the devil’s razor touch it.


5. There Is a Time for Mourning and Prayer

“Cut off your hair and throw it away; take up a lament on the barren heights, for the Lord has rejected and abandoned this generation that is under his wrath.” (Jeremiah 7:29)

In the Old Testament, shaving one’s head was a sign of mourning, humiliation, and repentance before God (Job 1:20). In the New Covenant, mourning is expressed through deep prayer, fasting, and repentance.

Just as we regularly trim our hair, so also we are called to regularly humble ourselves before God, seeking His face with tears and brokenness of spirit (Joel 2:12–13).


Conclusion

Beloved, your very body is a sermon. Your hair is a preacher reminding you that:

  • God counts all your affairs.
  • Enemies are inevitable, but victory is assured in Christ.
  • You cannot control everything — surrender to God.
  • Spiritual strength must be protected.
  • There is a time to weep, repent, and pray.

The question is: Do you allow your own body to teach you the voice of God?

May the Lord bless you richly.


“Therefore, glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.” (1 Corinthians 6:20)

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What Is Prostration — and Are Christians Required to Prostrate Before God?

Question: What does it mean to prostrate, and are Christians commanded to prostrate before God?

Prostration is the act of bowing down, often by kneeling or lowering one’s head toward the ground, as a sign of deep reverence, worship, or honor. In some cases it can involve falling all the way down so that the face or forehead touches the ground (see 2 Chronicles 7:3).

The Bible shows several examples of people prostrating before God, before other humans, before angels, and even before false gods.


1. People Prostrating Before God

The Bible often describes people humbling themselves before God in worship. One clear example is Abraham’s servant. When he met Rebekah and recognized that she was God’s chosen wife for Isaac, he bowed down in worship:

Genesis 24:26–27 (ESV)

Then the man bowed his head and worshiped the LORD and said,
“Blessed be the LORD, the God of my master Abraham, who has not forsaken his steadfast love and his faithfulness toward my master.”

Other examples of people bowing before God include Moses when he saw the glory of the Lord (Exodus 34:8–9), the people of Israel when the glory of the Lord came upon the temple (2 Chronicles 7:3), and Ezra and the Levites (Nehemiah 8:6).


2. People Prostrating Before Angels

In the book of Revelation, the apostle John fell at the feet of an angel to worship him, but the angel stopped him:

Revelation 22:8–9 (NIV)

I, John, fell at his feet to worship him. But he said, “Don’t do that! I am your fellow servant… Worship God!

In another example, Joshua bowed before a heavenly messenger (Joshua 5:14).


3. People Prostrating Before Other Humans

The Bible also records moments when people bowed before other humans. For example, Joseph’s brothers bowed before him when they came to Egypt:

Genesis 43:27–28 (NIV)

Then he asked how they were. And they said, “Your servant our father is well; he is still alive.”
Then they bowed down with their faces to the ground.

Other examples include Joab (2 Samuel 14:22), Araunah (2 Samuel 24:20), and even Haman, whom people bowed to in honor (Esther 3:2).


4. People Prostrating Before False Gods

Sadly, the Bible shows that people have bowed before false gods and demonic powers. When the Israelites joined in the worship of Moab’s gods, they bowed down to them:

Numbers 25:2–3 (NIV)

Israel joined them in worshiping their gods, so the people ate and bowed down before those gods.
Israel yoked themselves to Baal of Peor, and the LORD became angry with Israel.

King Jeroboam also led people into idol worship (1 Kings 16:31).


So, Should Christians Prostrate?

The answer is yes — but only God is worthy of worship. Humans, angels, and created beings are not to be worshiped.

Jesus clearly taught this during His temptation:

Matthew 4:8–10 (NIV)

Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory.
“All this I will give you,” he said, “if you will bow down and worship me.”
Jesus said to him,
“Away from me, Satan! For it is written:
‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve Him only.’”

So Scripture affirms that the only one who deserves true worship and prostration is God alone.


What About Bowing During Prayer?

Bowing or prostrating can be a meaningful outward expression of humility before God, especially in prayers of repentance, mercy, or earnest supplication. It can symbolize surrender and reverence. But it is not a required rule for prayer. Prayer does not have to include prostration to be accepted by God. Prostration is a personal act of devotion, inspired by the Holy Spirit and a humble heart.


May the Lord Help Us

 

 

 

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LET YOUR GOODNESS BE SPOKEN OF WITH HONOR

The Word of God teaches us to overcome evil with good.”

Romans 12:20–21 says:

“If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head. Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”

This means when you are wronged, do not repay evil with evil, but rather respond with goodness. By doing so, the one who harmed you will recognize his own guilt and may later repent.

However, the same Bible also warns us that our goodness should not be spoken of as evil.

Romans 14:16 declares:

“Do not allow what you consider good to be spoken of as evil.”

This shows that sometimes, even though we may not repay evil with evil, and instead show kindness, still our good deeds can be misunderstood or even appear “evil.” Therefore, it is important to purify our goodness.

Just as water, though used for cleansing, can become dirty, and soap, though meant to purify, can be soiled — in the same way, goodness, though precious, can be corrupted and misrepresented.


WHAT CORRUPTS OUR GOODNESS?

1. WRONG MOTIVES (INTENTIONS)

A wrong motive can turn goodness into hypocrisy. Someone may perform an act of kindness but only to be praised by others or to appear religious, without love or sincerity in the heart. Such “goodness” is false and becomes “goodness spoken of as evil.”

Jesus warned in Matthew 23:28:

“In the same way, on the outside you appear to people as righteous but on the inside you are full of hypocrisy and wickedness.”

True goodness must spring from love and a pure heart (1 Timothy 1:5).


2. THE SPIRIT OF VENGEANCE

Another danger is when someone returns good outwardly, but inwardly desires vengeance — perhaps saying, “I leave him to God so that God may punish him.”

Though this may sound wise, its wisdom is incomplete. Instead of desiring evil for our enemies, we should intercede for them, asking God to show them mercy. This reflects the very heart of God, whose first quality is mercy.

Proverbs 24:17–18 teaches:

“Do not gloat when your enemy falls; when they stumble, do not let your heart rejoice, or the Lord will see and disapprove and turn his wrath away from them.”

Vengeance belongs to the Lord alone (Romans 12:19), and we cannot dictate how He should act. For example, early Christians prayed against Saul for persecuting them, but instead of judgment, God showed him mercy and transformed him into Paul the Apostle (Acts 9).

Thus, the believer’s calling is to pray for mercy, not vengeance.

Jesus clearly taught this radical love in Luke 6:27–30:

“But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If someone takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them. Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back.”

This is not weakness or foolishness, but the living and powerful Word of God.


A PRAYER

May the Lord help us so that our goodness may be spoken of with honor and not with evil.

Maranatha!

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SHOW ME YOUR FRIENDS, AND I’LL TELL YOU YOUR CHARACTER

(Proverbs 13:20)
“Walk with the wise and become wise, but the companion of fools suffers harm.”

When we were children, our parents taught us to be selective about our friends. Interestingly, the criteria they used were not skin color, height, or health, but rather character and intellect. Children who were thoughtful and intelligent were encouraged to be close to us because we would be positively influenced by their behavior. On the other hand, those who were foolish—even if we played with them occasionally—we were disciplined for it. At the time, it felt unfair, but as we grew older and saw the lives of those children, we understood what our parents had seen and why it was necessary.

Similarly, in spiritual life, we are told:
“Walk with the wise and become wise, but the companion of fools suffers harm.”


WHO ARE THE WISE IN GOD’S EYES?

They are people who are saved and have the fear of God within them. Anyone who has trusted Jesus as Lord and Savior and continues to genuinely follow Him is someone you should spend time with. Being close to them will teach you about salvation, prayer, fasting, God’s love, the knowledge of His Word, and also how to witness effectively.

Even Jesus demonstrated this in His life. From a young age, He chose to surround Himself with people who would positively influence His spiritual growth. He did not spend His time with peers indulging in worldly games, parties, or sinful habits. Instead, He was close to teachers and spiritual leaders, learning from them and absorbing their wisdom until He became the greatest Rabbi Himself.

Luke 2:40-50

“The child grew and became strong; he was filled with wisdom, and the favor of God was upon him. When he was twelve years old, his parents went up to Jerusalem for the festival, according to the custom. After the festival was over, while his parents were returning home, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem, but they were unaware of it. Thinking he was in the caravan, they traveled for a day and looked for him among their relatives and friends. When they did not find him, they returned to Jerusalem to look for him. After three days they found him in the temple, sitting among the teachers, listening to them and asking questions. Everyone who heard him was amazed at his understanding and his answers. When his parents saw him, they were astonished, and his mother said to him, ‘Child, why have you treated us like this? Your father and I have been anxiously searching for you.’ ‘Why were you searching for me?’ he asked. ‘Didn’t you know I had to be in my Father’s house?’ But they did not understand what he meant.”


THE IMPORTANCE OF CHOOSING THE RIGHT FRIENDS

Some habits or qualities will never develop in your life unless you surround yourself with the right people. If a Christian spends most of their time with worldly friends—office colleagues, college friends, or neighbors—their spiritual life may suffer. Some only meet faithful servants of God on Sundays, avoid spiritual accountability, and yet expect to remain spiritually strong. This is self-deception.

We need to actively surround ourselves with people who will help us grow:

  • Walk with prayerful people → You will become prayerful.
  • Walk with witnesses → You will learn to witness.
  • Walk with teachers → You will become a teacher.

Without such guidance and spiritual company, the world’s influence can overpower us.


MAY THE LORD BLESS YOU.

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HOW TO OVERCOME STORMS

QUESTION: What does Proverbs 10:25 mean?

“When the storm passes, the wicked are gone, but the righteous stand firm forever.”

ANSWER: This verse is well explained by the example that Lord Jesus gave regarding people who hear His words but do not act on them. Let’s read:

Matthew 7:24

“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock.
25 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock.
26 But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand.
27 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.”

Returning to the Proverbs passage, you can understand who the wicked are:
They are the ones who hear the gospel but do not obey it. They may claim to be saved, but the fruit of salvation is not visible in them. Spiritually, they appear no different from someone who has never known God. All these are called wicked. They are still in sin and have not been redeemed by the blood of Jesus Christ.

Outwardly, they may appear holy. But when trials, hardships, persecution, or challenges for Christ come, they quickly fall back and act as if they have never known God, because they were not built on the rock. Some face not hardships but prosperity, and when comfort and success increase, they forget God and abandon faith, because they followed Jesus only for the trials. Some stop seeking Him after marriage, education, or promotions.

However, the person who hears Christ’s words and obeys them is the opposite—they are called the “foundation of eternity.” They will not be shaken by any wave, storm, or trial because they are built on the rock.

Be saved, receive forgiveness of sins, and then live in obedience and repentance so that you can always stand firm.

The Lord bless you.
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What does Proverbs 28:28 mean – “When the wicked arise, men hide themselves; But when they perish, the righteous increase” (NKJV)?

ANSWER: This proverb communicates a profound spiritual truth about the impact of leadership and societal morality. When wicked individuals rise to power—whether in political, religious, or social spaces—those who are righteous often go into hiding. It’s not always a physical disappearance, but rather a withdrawal from public visibility or influence due to oppression, fear, or marginalization.

This concept is vividly illustrated in the Bible during the reign of King Ahab and Queen Jezebel (1 Kings 16–21). Ahab, under Jezebel’s influence, led Israel into deep idolatry, including the worship of Baal. Jezebel orchestrated the killing of God’s prophets (1 Kings 18:4), and many of the faithful were forced to hide. The prophet Elijah, overwhelmed and discouraged, felt utterly alone in his faithfulness:

“LORD, they have killed Your prophets and torn down Your altars, and I alone am left; and they seek to take my life.” (Romans 11:3, NKJV; citing 1 Kings 19:10)

However, God’s response reveals a deeper theological reality:

“I have reserved for Myself seven thousand men who have not bowed the knee to Baal.” (Romans 11:4, NKJV)

This shows that even in times of great spiritual darkness, God preserves a faithful remnant—a theme repeated throughout Scripture (see Isaiah 1:9, Romans 9:27).

In our modern world, we see parallels: wickedness is often celebrated in media, politics, and even some religious circles. True holiness and righteousness can feel rare, and those who live by God’s standards may feel isolated. But we must remember that visibility is not always the measure of presence. Just as God had hidden His faithful ones in Elijah’s time, He still preserves His people today.

“For the eyes of the LORD run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to show Himself strong on behalf of those whose heart is loyal to Him.” (2 Chronicles 16:9a, NKJV)

The latter part of Proverbs 28:28 is a message of hope and future restoration: “But when they perish, the righteous increase.” When God judges and removes the wicked, righteousness is no longer suppressed—it flourishes. This points toward both historical moments of revival and the ultimate future kingdom of Christ, where:

“The meek shall inherit the earth, and shall delight themselves in the abundance of peace.” (Psalm 37:11, NKJV)

Jesus echoed this in the Beatitudes:

“Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.” (Matthew 5:5, NKJV)

Encouragement for Today:

If you are striving to live a godly life—whether through modesty, sexual purity, honesty, or devotion—yet feel alone, remember: you are not alone. God has always had a remnant. Your obedience is not in vain. Continue walking boldly in your faith, knowing that:

“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not comprehend it.” (John 1:5, NKJV)

A time will come when the influence of the wicked will cease, and the righteousness of God’s people will shine like the dawn (Proverbs 4:18). Don’t follow the crowd. Don’t be discouraged by the noise of evil. God sees, and He will exalt the righteous in His time.

Proverbs 28:28“When the wicked arise, men hide themselves; But when they perish, the righteous increase.” (NKJV)

May the Lord bless you and keep you steadfast in these last days.


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