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What Is “toilsome”? (Ecclesiastes 4:4)


Question: What does the word toilsome mean?
Answer: Let’s explore it through Scripture.


Ecclesiastes 4:4 (ESV):

“Then I saw that all toil and all skill in work come from a man’s envy of his neighbor. This also is vanity and a striving after wind.”

The Hebrew word “toilsome” (עָמָל), from which Amali is derived, generally refers to toilsome, burdensome labor—work that is not only physically draining but often emotionally and spiritually exhausting. It carries the idea of labor born out of struggle, and often in vain.

So, Ecclesiastes 4:4 can be paraphrased this way:

“Then I observed all the difficult and wearisome labor, and every impressive skill in work, and I saw that it often arises from rivalry or competition between one person and another. This too is meaningless—a chasing after the wind.”

Solomon, the writer of Ecclesiastes, recognized that many people’s hard work is not rooted in divine purpose, but in envy, ambition, and comparison. The implication is that even skillful work—if it is driven by jealousy or the desire to outdo others—is ultimately vain (hebel), which in Hebrew means empty, fleeting, or meaningless.

This does not mean that all hard work is sinful. In fact, Scripture elsewhere commends diligence and responsibility. However, when labor is disconnected from God, or fueled by carnal motives like greed or pride, it becomes vain toil, with no eternal value.


Ecclesiastes 4:8 (NIV):

“There was a man all alone; he had neither son nor brother. There was no end to his toil, yet his eyes were not content with his wealth. ‘For whom am I toiling,’ he asked, ‘and why am I depriving myself of enjoyment?’ This too is meaningless—a miserable business!”

This verse reveals the emptiness of labor when it lacks relational and eternal purpose. A person can work endlessly, yet never find fulfillment, because material success without spiritual alignment leads to emptiness.


Not All “toilsome” Is Evil

It’s important to clarify: Not all who labor hard do so from envy or sinful ambition.
Some people work with integrity, with good intentions, and with the fear of God. They seek to provide, to serve, or to fulfill a calling. For them, labor is a form of worship and stewardship.

And the Bible affirms this:


Ecclesiastes 5:19 (AMP):

“Also, every man to whom God has given riches and possessions, He has also given the power and ability to enjoy them and to receive his allotted portion and rejoice in his labor—this is the gift of God.”

Ecclesiastes 8:15 (NIV):

“So I commend the enjoyment of life, because there is nothing better for a person under the sun than to eat and drink and be glad. Then joy will accompany them in their toil all the days of the life God has given them under the sun.”

When our labor is surrendered to God, it becomes meaningful. God gives joy in the work of our hands when it is done with reverence and purpose.


Jesus Gives True Rest

If your work feels burdensome, if you’re exhausted mentally and physically, and you don’t see lasting fruit—turn to Jesus. He invites all who are weary to come to Him.


Matthew 11:28–30 (ESV):

“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart,
and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”


Psalm 127:2 (ESV):

“It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest,
eating the bread of anxious toil;
for he gives to his beloved sleep.”


Conclusion

“Amali” (toilsome labor) can be either vain or valuable—it depends on the heart behind it. Work done for selfish gain or comparison leads to emptiness. But work offered to God, with godly purpose, is rewarded with peace, joy, and eternal value.


May the Lord bless the work of your hands.
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The Promise of the Holy Spirit for Every Believer(Acts 2:39

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The promise of the Holy Spirit is not for a select few, but for every believer in Jesus Christ. As Acts 2:39 (ESV) declares:

For the promise is for you and for your children and for all who are far off, everyone whom the Lord our God calls to himself.

This means that the Holy Spirit is God’s gift to empower, guide, and sustain us as we live out our salvation. The Spirit enables us to live at the standard God desires—holy, fruitful lives that bring Him glory (John 15:8).

The moment you accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior, the Holy Spirit came to dwell in you (Ephesians 1:13):

In him you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed in him, were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit.

While you may not have felt a physical change, His presence is real. The evidence of His work becomes clearer as you continue in obedience and faith (John 14:23).

Key Works of the Holy Spirit in a Believer

1️⃣ He guides us into all truth and opens the Scriptures to us.

The Holy Spirit illuminates God’s Word so that we can understand and apply it.

When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth, for he will not speak on his own authority, but whatever he hears he will speak, and he will declare to you the things that are to come.

(John 16:13, ESV)

Just as Jesus promised, the Spirit helps us discern spiritual truth (see 1 Corinthians 2:10-14).

2️⃣ He teaches and reminds us of Christ’s teachings.

But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you.

(John 14:26, ESV)

The Spirit not only helps us understand doctrine but also brings God’s Word to mind when we need it most (Psalm 119:11).

3️⃣ He helps us in our weaknesses, especially in prayer.

Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words.

(Romans 8:26, ESV)

This shows our total dependence on God—even in prayer—and the Spirit’s active role in drawing us into deeper communion with the Father.

4️⃣ He empowers us to overcome the flesh.

This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.

(Galatians 5:16, KJV)

 

For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other…

(Galatians 5:17, KJV)

By the Spirit’s power, we crucify the sinful nature (Romans 8:13), producing the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23).

5️⃣ He convicts us of sin, righteousness, and judgment.

And when he is come, he will reprove the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment.

(John 16:8, KJV)

The Holy Spirit keeps us sensitive to sin and calls us to live in holiness, conforming to the image of Christ (Romans 8:29).

6️⃣ He gives spiritual gifts for the building up of the Church.

To each is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good.

(1 Corinthians 12:7, ESV)

The Spirit sovereignly distributes gifts: wisdom, knowledge, faith, healing, miracles, prophecy, discernment, tongues, and interpretation (1 Corinthians 12:8-11). These gifts equip the Church for ministry (Ephesians 4:11-13).

7️⃣ He empowers us to boldly witness for Christ.

But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses…

(Acts 1:8, ESV)

The Spirit gives courage and clarity to proclaim the Gospel, just as He did with Peter at Pentecost (Acts 2).

How to Be Filled with the Holy Spirit

The Spirit is present in every believer, but we are commanded to “be filled with the Spirit” (Ephesians 5:18), meaning we must yield to His control daily.

✅ 1) Separate yourself from sin.

Holiness invites the fullness of the Spirit.

If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.

(Luke 9:23, ESV)

Turn from sinful habits and pursue righteousness (2 Timothy 2:21).

✅ 2) Submit to the laying on of hands by spiritual leaders.

God sometimes uses this means to stir up the Spirit’s work.

Then laid they their hands on them, and they received the Holy Ghost.

(Acts 8:17, KJV)

 

Wherefore I put thee in remembrance that thou stir up the gift of God, which is in thee by the putting on of my hands.

(2 Timothy 1:6, KJV)

✅ 3) Devote yourself to prayer.

Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.

(Matthew 26:41, ESV)

Pray daily and ask God for the gift of praying in the Spirit (Jude 1:20). Allow your mouth to engage fully in prayer—true Spirit-filled prayer is not silent but expressed.

✅ 4) Immerse yourself in the Word of God.

Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly…

(Colossians 3:16, ESV)

The Spirit speaks through Scripture. The more you know God’s Word, the more you’ll recognize the Spirit’s voice and leading.

Conclusion

When you give the Holy Spirit full place in your life, His power, guidance, and gifts will be evident. As the Apostle Paul wrote:

If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit.

(Galatians 5:25, ESV)

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I Am Ready for Baptism

Baptism is one of the first steps of obedience that Jesus commands for all who believe in Him. Some people may argue that baptism is unnecessary or unimportant. But, dear friend, do not take this lightly. Even if it seems unimportant to you, it is highly significant to the One who gave the command—our Lord Jesus Christ.

Why should we be baptized?

✅ Because it is the Lord’s command.

Baptism is not optional; it is part of the Great Commission Jesus gave to His followers:

Matthew 28:19-20 (ESV)

Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.

✅ Because Jesus Himself was baptized as an example for us.

Although He was without sin, Jesus chose to be baptized to “fulfill all righteousness” (Matthew 3:15). If He, the sinless Son of God, submitted to baptism, how much more should we who have been saved by grace?

Matthew 3:13-15 (ESV)

Then Jesus came from Galilee to the Jordan to John, to be baptized by him. John would have prevented him, saying, ‘I need to be baptized by you, and do you come to me?’ But Jesus answered him, ‘Let it be so now, for thus it is fitting for us to fulfill all righteousness.’ Then he consented.

✅ Because baptism is an outward sign of an inner reality.

Baptism is a public declaration that you have been united with Christ in His death, burial, and resurrection. It symbolizes that you have died to sin and now live a new life in Christ.

Romans 6:3-4 (ESV)

Do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? We were buried therefore with him by baptism into death, in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life.

Who should be baptized?

✅ Those who believe and repent.

Baptism is for those who have consciously placed their faith in Jesus Christ and have turned away from sin. It is never presented in the New Testament as something done for infants or those who have not personally believed.

Acts 2:41 (ESV)

So those who received his word were baptized, and there were added that day about three thousand souls.

 

Acts 8:12 (ESV)

But when they believed Philip as he preached good news about the kingdom of God and the name of Jesus Christ, they were baptized, both men and women.

When should a person be baptized?

✅ As soon as possible after believing.

In the New Testament, people were baptized shortly after believing in Jesus. There was no long waiting period or requirement for advanced spiritual maturity. Baptism marked the beginning of their new life.

Acts 2:38 (ESV)

And Peter said to them, ‘Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.

 

Acts 16:33 (ESV)

And he took them the same hour of the night and washed their wounds; and he was baptized at once, he and all his family.

What is the correct mode of baptism?

✅ Baptism by full immersion in water.

The biblical pattern shows people going down into the water and coming up again—symbolizing burial and resurrection.

John 3:23 (ESV)

John also was baptizing at Aenon near Salim, because water was plentiful there, and people were coming and being baptized.

 

Acts 8:38-39 (ESV)

And he commanded the chariot to stop, and they both went down into the water, Philip and the eunuch, and he baptized him. And when they came up out of the water, the Spirit of the Lord carried Philip away.

✅ Baptism in the name of Jesus Christ.

This is consistent with baptizing in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, because Jesus embodies the fullness of the Godhead (Colossians 2:9).

Acts 10:48 (ESV)

And he commanded them to be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ. Then they asked him to remain for some days.

 

Acts 19:5 (ESV)

On hearing this, they were baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus.

What if I was baptized as an infant or not by immersion?

✅ You should be baptized again in the biblical way.

If you were baptized before you personally believed or not by full immersion, it is right and proper to be baptized according to the teaching and example found in Scripture.

Where can I be baptized.

If you are saved and ready to take this step, look for a Bible-believing church that practices baptism by immersion in the name of Jesus Christ. If you need help arranging for baptism, feel free to contact us:

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Scriptures to remember about baptism

✅ Colossians 2:12 (ESV) — “Having been buried with him in baptism, in which you were also raised with him through faith in the powerful working of God, who raised him from the dead.”

✅ Galatians 3:27 (ESV) — “For as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ.”

May the Lord richly bless you as you take this step of faith.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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The Difference Between a Denomination and a Religion

Religion is a structured system for worshiping God. It provides a framework through which people express their faith, ensuring their worship is orderly and purposeful. For instance, when you visit a place of worship and see people following certain rituals, prayers, or liturgies, these are not random actions—they reflect the organized system of religion. Religion provides rules, guidance, and methods designed to produce meaningful worship.

Even our faith in Christ functions within a framework. God does not call us to worship Him arbitrarily; He has revealed both the principles and the practices that honor Him. True religion is not merely external; it is a reflection of a heart aligned with God’s will.

Denominations, however, are “branches” within a broader faith. While all Christians share faith in Jesus Christ and base their belief on the same Holy Scriptures, denominations differ in practice, interpretation, and emphasis. For example, some focus on charismatic gifts, others on sacramental traditions, and still others on Sabbath observance or liturgical forms. These differences produce groups such as Pentecostals, Catholics, Orthodox, and Seventh-day Adventists. Each represents a particular expression of faith, though some remain closer to the biblical truth than others.

The Bible, however, makes clear the essence of true religion:

James 1:26-27 (ESV):

If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, his religion is worthless. Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world.

True religion is practical, transformative, and active—it manifests in holiness, compassion, and personal integrity. Mere outward ritual is insufficient; God judges the heart and the fruit of one’s faith (see Matthew 7:21-23).

Does a Denomination Guarantee Entrance into Heaven?

No. Jesus Christ did not come to establish a new denomination. When He arrived on earth, multiple religious groups already existed, such as the Pharisees and Sadducees (Matthew 23). Yet Jesus did not defend any of them; instead, He called people to Himself, declaring:

John 14:6 (NIV):

I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.

Salvation is found in a personal relationship with Christ, not in adherence to a particular religious system. While denominations can support spiritual growth and provide community, they are not a substitute for genuine faith. Religion is like a school that supports education—it can guide and facilitate growth, but it cannot replace the knowledge and life-changing power of Christ Himself.

How to Choose a Denomination Wisely

It is essential to evaluate any denomination against the standard of Scripture. Ask yourself:

  • Does this group uphold faith in Christ alone for salvation? (Ephesians 2:8-9)
  • Does it teach holiness, obedience, and godly living? (1 Peter 1:15-16)
  • Does it embrace the work and gifts of the Holy Spirit? (1 Corinthians 12:4-11)
  • Does it direct worship to God rather than idols or human traditions? (Exodus 20:3-5)

A denomination that fails in these areas may not nurture spiritual maturity; it may even mislead. Conversely, a community grounded in Scripture, led by the Spirit, and focused on Christ can help believers grow into full maturity (Ephesians 4:11-16).

Ultimately, compare every practice with Scripture, pray for guidance from the Holy Spirit, and let God direct your path. True faith is not about denominational labels—it is about a heart wholly devoted to Christ and His Word.

May the Lord bless you and guide your worship.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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New Life in Christ

 

Salvation is more than just a momentary decision—it marks the beginning of a complete transformation in a person’s life. When someone is truly saved, several key things begin to happen by the work of the Holy Spirit. Let us explore what salvation does in a person’s life:


1. You Become a New Creation

Jesus replied, “Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again.”
John 3:3 (NIV)

The new birth, or being “born again,” is not a reformation of your old self—it is a divine transformation. When you are saved, you do not just try to become a better version of your old self; you become someone entirely new. Just like a baby is born into a brand-new world, salvation brings you into a new spiritual reality.

Christianity is not merely a symbol, a social group, or a religious routine. It is the beginning of a completely new life in a different kingdom—with a new heart, new desires, and a new Lord.

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!
2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV)


2. You Are Transferred from the Kingdom of Darkness

For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves.
Colossians 1:13 (NIV)

Salvation also means a change of kingdoms. Before Christ, we lived under the rule of darkness—bound by sin, addictions, occult practices, worldliness, pride, and the influence of Satan. But through the cross, Christ delivers us from all this and brings us under His righteous rule.

This deliverance is not symbolic; it’s a real spiritual transition. That’s why a person who is truly saved cannot continue clinging to charms, talismans, witchcraft, drunkenness, or immoral living. Just as Zacchaeus gave up his life of corruption after encountering Jesus (Luke 19:8-9), we too must leave behind all things that dishonor God.


3. You Begin Walking in a Life of Ongoing Sanctification

Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling,
for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.
Philippians 2:12–13 (NIV)

Although we are saved the moment we believe in Christ, salvation is not a one-time event to be taken lightly. It is a journey of daily surrender and sanctification—becoming more like Jesus every day.

Working out your salvation means actively cooperating with the Holy Spirit. It means living a life that bears fruit worthy of repentance (Matthew 3:8), striving for holiness (Hebrews 12:14), and walking in obedience. Salvation is a gift, but it comes with a call to grow, mature, and reflect God’s character in every area of life.


What Does This Mean for You?

If you have received Christ and been born again, then you must also make a clear break from your former way of life. True repentance (toba) means turning away completely from all sin and ungodly behavior. If you were living in sexual immorality, drunkenness, theft, or dishonesty—leave it all behind today.

Like Zacchaeus, whose heart and actions changed the day he met Christ, your new life should be evident to all.

But Zacchaeus stood up and said to the Lord, “Look, Lord! Here and now I give half of my possessions to the poor, and if I have cheated anybody out of anything, I will pay back four times the amount.”
Jesus said to him, “Today salvation has come to this house…”

Luke 19:8–9 (NIV)


In Conclusion

Salvation is not just a gift from God—it’s an invitation into a new kingdom, a new way of life, and a new identity. It comes with a new King (Jesus), a new purpose, and a new path. From now on, strive to live in holiness, bearing the fruit of repentance and letting your life be a testimony of God’s grace and power.

Live as children of light (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth) and find out what pleases the Lord.
Ephesians 5:8–10 (NIV)


 

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I Am Ready to Be Saved


The Prayer of Salvation:

God has a great plan for your life—first, to save you, and second, to reveal His goodness in every area of your life. This decision to receive the Lord Jesus is the wisest choice you will ever make, and you will rejoice over it for all eternity.

If you are ready to receive salvation, you can take this step of faith right now, wherever you are. Simply kneel before God in humility, and pray the following words sincerely and in faith. At this very moment, salvation will be freely given to you.

Say this prayer out loud:

“Lord Jesus, I believe that You are the Son of God. I believe that You died for my sins and that You rose again and live forever. I confess that I am a sinner, deserving of judgment and death. But today, I repent of all my sins and surrender my life to You.

I ask for Your forgiveness, Lord Jesus. Please write my name in the Book of Life. I invite You into my heart to be my Lord and Savior from this day forward. I choose to follow and obey You all the days of my life.

Thank You, Lord Jesus, for forgiving me and saving me. Amen.”


What Just Happened?

By sincerely praying that simple prayer, the Lord Jesus has already forgiven your sins. Remember, forgiveness is not about pleading with God over and over again for the number of sins you’ve committed, as though you’re trying to persuade Him. No.

God has already provided forgiveness through the death of Jesus Christ on the cross. Now it is our responsibility to receive that forgiveness in our hearts by believing in what God has done through Jesus.

As the Apostle Paul wrote:

Romans 10:9–10 (NIV)
“If you declare with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord,’ and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.”


What Does It Mean to Believe?

When the Bible says “believe,” it means accepting by faith the finished work of Jesus on the cross—His death as the full payment for our sins.

It’s like someone offering you a diamond and saying, “If you accept this, your poverty will be over.” Your part is not to cry or beg, but simply to believe that what they are offering is real and valuable—and then accept it.

Likewise, Jesus offers us forgiveness of sin. He says, “If you believe that I died to completely remove your sins, then you will be saved.”
When you believe that Jesus died for you and accept Him as Lord and Savior, your sins are erased—no matter how many they were.


Why the Prayer Was Enough:

That short but heartfelt prayer is enough to make you a child of God. Why? Because by it, you have accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. That is the basis of salvation. As Jesus Himself declared:

John 1:12 (NIV)
“Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God.”

You are now born again. Welcome to the family of God!


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Who is this Immanuel mentioned in Isaiah?


Question:
When we read Isaiah 7:14, we encounter the name Immanuel, who is clearly identified as the Lord JESUS. However, when we move forward to Isaiah 8:8, another Immanuel appears. Is this the same Immanuel the Lord JESUS?

Answer:
Let’s carefully examine these passages.

Isaiah 7:14 states:

“Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign: The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and will call him Immanuel.” (NIV)

This prophecy is messianic, pointing directly to the incarnation of Jesus Christ, the Messiah (cf. Matthew 1:22-23, which explicitly applies this prophecy to Jesus). The name Immanuel means “God with us,” affirming the divine nature of Christ, God manifest in human flesh (John 1:14). This verse foreshadows the virgin birth and God’s redemptive presence through Jesus.

Now, Isaiah 8:8 says:

“He will sweep on into Judah, he will overflow and pass through it. He will reach up to its neck; his outspread wings will fill the breadth of your land, Immanuel.” (NIV)

This verse references an imminent historical event during Isaiah’s time involving the Assyrian invasion of Judah. The “Immanuel” here symbolizes the presence of God with the people of Judah as a nation, rather than the Messiah himself. It reflects God’s protective presence and assurance despite the political and military threats (cf. Isaiah 8:10-13).

Theologically, this shows that Immanuel is not solely a personal name but also a declaration of God’s ongoing presence with His people. In this context, Judah is called Immanuel to remind them that God is with them amidst trials and enemies. It’s a corporate, covenantal reality, not just a messianic title.

The historical background is crucial: Israel (the northern kingdom) and Syria formed an alliance to attack Judah, pressuring King Ahaz to join them (Isaiah 7:1-2). Ahaz’s refusal led to threats against Judah. Instead of trusting foreign alliances (Assyria), Isaiah calls Judah to trust in God’s presence  Immanuel. God’s presence signifies protection and hope.

Are you “in Jesus”?

Being “in Jesus” means abiding in a living relationship with Him. Jesus said in John 15:4-5 (NIV):

“Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me.”

This intimate union is necessary for spiritual life and fruitfulness. Without this connection, one cannot experience the fullness of God’s presence or power.

Furthermore, Revelation 3:20 (NIV) beautifully portrays Jesus’ invitation:

“Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me.”

This depicts the personal nature of salvation Jesus knocks on the door of our hearts, desiring fellowship and covenant relationship. Opening the door symbolizes repentance and faith.

Summary:

Isaiah 7:14’s Immanuel is the promised Messiah, Jesus Christ God incarnate, who came to dwell among us and save us from sin.

Isaiah 8:8’s Immanuel represents God’s presence with Judah as a nation in times of trial, reminding them to trust God rather than political powers.

Being Immanuel means “God with us,” a profound truth for all believers who accept Christ and live in close fellowship with Him.

Be blessed!

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What Does “Give Strong Drink to Him Who Is Perishing” Mean?

 

The Question:

Proverbs 31:6–7 says:
“Give strong drink to him who is perishing, and wine to those who are bitter of heart.
Let him drink and forget his poverty, and remember his misery no more.”

Does this verse mean it’s okay for believers to drink alcohol when facing sorrow, pain, or hardship?


Understanding the Context – The Old Covenant and Physical Solutions:
To interpret this properly, we must consider the dispensational context. Proverbs was written under the Old Covenant, a time when God’s dealings with humanity were largely external and physical (Hebrews 8:6–13). Under that covenant, people often turned to physical remedies for emotional and moral issues—including the use of strong drink to dull grief and suffering.

It’s similar to how they were permitted to divorce or marry multiple wives—not because it was God’s ideal, but because of the hardness of their hearts.

Jesus clarifies this:

Matthew 19:7–8 
They said to Him, “Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?”
He said to them, “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.”

God tolerated certain human practices in the Old Testament, but they never reflected His original design. The temporary provision to allow strong drink for those in sorrow was just that—a temporary allowance, not a divine endorsement of alcohol as a lasting solution.

Limitations of Alcohol as Comfort:

The thinking behind Proverbs 31:6–7 was that someone overwhelmed by grief might use alcohol to forget their pain, especially during severe distress like death or deep poverty. Even Job’s story (Job 1–2) shows the depth of grief humans face. But the relief from alcohol is fleeting. Once the drink wears off, the pain returns. Alcohol doesn’t heal, it numbs—and only for a short time.

This highlights an important theological truth: Fleshly solutions cannot resolve spiritual or emotional problems.


God’s Better Solution in the New Covenant – The Holy Spirit:
With the coming of Christ, God introduced a new and better covenant (Hebrews 8:6), bringing lasting spiritual transformation through the Holy Spirit. Jesus offers not a temporary escape from sorrow, but living water that satisfies the deepest longings of the soul.

John 7:37–39
“If anyone thirsts, let him come to Me and drink.
He who believes in Me, as the Scripture has said, out of his heart will flow rivers of living water.”

But this He spoke concerning the Spirit, whom those believing in Him would receive; for the Holy Spirit was not yet given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.

The Holy Spirit brings what alcohol cannot: true comfort, lasting peace, freedom from sin, and inner joy.


The Day of Pentecost – The Spirit Misunderstood as Wine:
When the Holy Spirit was poured out at Pentecost, the joy and boldness experienced by the disciples caused some onlookers to think they were drunk. But Peter corrected them:

Acts 2:15–17
“For these are not drunk, as you suppose, since it is only the third hour of the day.
But this is what was spoken by the prophet Joel:
‘And it shall come to pass in the last days, says God,
That I will pour out of My Spirit on all flesh…’”

This wasn’t the intoxication of wine—it was the overflow of the Spirit.


A Clear Command Against Drunkenness:
In the New Testament, believers are commanded not to seek emotional escape or joy through alcohol, but to be filled with the Holy Spirit:

Ephesians 5:18
“And do not be drunk with wine, in which is dissipation; but be filled with the Spirit.”

Paul draws a clear contrast: drunkenness leads to spiritual and moral collapse, but being filled with the Spirit brings life, order, and purpose.

Proverbs 31:6–7 is not a command or justification for alcohol use in times of sorrow. It’s a reflection of an older, less complete way of dealing with pain, rooted in the Old Covenant. Under the New Covenant, we are offered something far better: the Holy Spirit, who brings real healing and lasting joy.

Just as polygamy and divorce were permitted but not ideal, alcohol may have been tolerated—but it is not the believer’s source of comfort today. That role now belongs to the Holy Spirit, the Comforter (John 14:26).

Let us, therefore, understand the times we live in and walk according to God’s perfect will.

“The Spirit helps us in our weakness…”
Romans 8:26 

God bless you 

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Understanding Proverbs 3:27 – “Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due”

Proverbs 3:27 (ESV)“Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to do it.”

What Does This Verse Mean?

This verse from Proverbs offers both a moral and spiritual principle: we are not to withhold acts of kindness, generosity, or justice from those who have a rightful claim to them—especially when we are capable of helping.

There are two parts to this command:

  1. “Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due.”
  2. “When it is in your power to do it.”

Let’s unpack these two elements in more detail.


1. “Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due”

The Hebrew phrase here literally implies, “Do not hold back good from its owners.” In other words, this “good” is not charity in the modern sense, where the giver decides whether to give or not—it is a moral obligation. Some people have a rightful claim to our help.

Who are the people to whom good is due?

a) Biological Family

Scripture places primary responsibility on caring for our immediate families.

1 Timothy 5:8 (ESV)“But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.”

Neglecting one’s own family is seen as a betrayal of the Christian faith. Family care is not optional—it’s foundational to biblical responsibility. This includes:

  • Elderly parents (see also Exodus 20:12“Honor your father and your mother…”)
  • Children
  • Siblings
  • Spouse

When a family member is in need, helping them is not just generous—it is just.

b) Fellow Believers (The Household of Faith)

Galatians 6:10 (ESV)“So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith.”

Early Christian communities functioned almost like extended families. They shared their possessions and looked after each other’s needs (Acts 2:44–45). The Apostle John adds that failing to help a brother in need casts doubt on the genuineness of one’s faith:

1 John 3:17–18 (ESV)
“But if anyone has the world’s goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God’s love abide in him? Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth.”

This also includes:

  • Widows in the church who meet the biblical qualifications (see 1 Timothy 5:3–10).
  • Faithful ministers of the gospel who devote themselves to preaching and teaching (see 1 Corinthians 9:14“The Lord commanded that those who proclaim the gospel should get their living by the gospel.”)

c) The Poor and Needy

The Bible consistently commands care for the poor, widows, orphans, and the oppressed.

Galatians 2:10 (ESV)“Only, they asked us to remember the poor, the very thing I was eager to do.”

Helping the poor is not an act of superiority but of justice and mercy. God identifies Himself as a defender of the poor:

Proverbs 19:17 (ESV)“Whoever is generous to the poor lends to the Lord, and he will repay him for his deed.”

This includes:

  • Homeless individuals
  • Disabled persons
  • Needy neighbors
  • Strangers in need (see Deuteronomy 10:18–19)

2. “When it is in your power to do it”

This part of the verse introduces wisdom and boundaries. God does not expect us to give what we do not have. Generosity must be spirit-led and situationally wise.

2 Corinthians 8:12–13 (ESV)
“For if the readiness is there, it is acceptable according to what a person has, not according to what he does not have. For I do not mean that others should be eased and you burdened.”

Paul clarifies that giving should be based on one’s ability—not out of guilt or pressure. God honors the willing heart, not the amount.

Balance is important:

  • Don’t neglect your own household in an effort to help others.
  • Don’t give beyond your means, unless the Spirit leads and your faith is strong enough to sustain it.
  • Don’t ignore real needs just because you fear running out.

Luke 6:38 (ESV)“Give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap…”

The principle is this: God provides more to those who are faithful stewards, knowing they will channel blessings to others.


Theological Reflection

This proverb aligns with the biblical themes of justice, mercy, and stewardship. God is not simply calling us to be “nice people”—He is calling us to be agents of His righteousness on earth. Helping those “to whom it is due” reflects:

  • God’s character – who is merciful and just.
  • Kingdom living – where believers reflect heaven’s values on earth.
  • Practical holiness – where love becomes action.

Conclusion

Proverbs 3:27 is not just a call to generosity—it’s a call to justice and responsibility.

Help those:

  • You are biblically responsible for,
  • Who are in genuine need,
  • And when you have the means to do so.

Use wisdom, act from a willing heart, and remember that your help to others is ultimately service to God Himself.

Matthew 25:40 (ESV)“Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.”


May the Lord bless you and make you a faithful steward of every good gift He has given you.

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Being a Friend of the World is Being an Enemy of God

James 4:4 (NKJV) says, 

“Adulterers and adulteresses! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.”

This verse confronts a serious issue in the life of a believer: worldliness. Loving the world and its desires automatically positions someone against God. The “world” here is not the physical planet but the system of values, pleasures, and desires that stand in opposition to God’s will. In other words, when we indulge in sinful desires such as lust, immorality, greed, materialism, and the pursuit of worldly pleasures (like music, sports fandom, drinking, or indulgence in sinful habits) we make ourselves enemies of God. We cannot serve both God and the world (Matthew 6:24).

In 1 John 2:15-17 (NIV)

“Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them. For everything in the world the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life comes not from the Father but from the world. The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.”

John categorizes three specific worldly temptations:

  • The lust of the flesh (desires of physical indulgence),
  • The lust of the eyes (coveting things we see),
  • The pride of life (self-reliance and arrogance due to worldly success).

These temptations do not come from God. In fact, John warns that the world’s system is temporary, but those who do God’s will will endure forever. Worldly things pass away, but the eternal value lies in God’s purposes and His kingdom.

The Pride of Life: A Dangerous Trap

The pride of life specifically refers to a person’s belief that their achievements be it through education, wealth, or fame make them independent of God or above His commands. In biblical terms, pride is a dangerous thing.

Proverbs 16:18 (NKJV) says,

“Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.”

This is evident in the lives of many who have turned away from God due to their arrogance and self-sufficiency.

Take, for example, the story of King Belshazzar in Daniel 5. Despite his wealth and power, he chose to mock God by using sacred vessels from the temple in Jerusalem to drink wine in a feast. That night, a mysterious hand appeared and wrote the words “MENE, MENE, TEKEL, and PERES” on the wall, signifying the end of his reign and the judgment of God. The pride he had in his kingdom did not save him; in fact, it led to his downfall.

As Daniel 5:30 (NIV) says,

“That very night Belshazzar, king of the Babylonians, was slain.”

Likewise, the rich man in Luke 16:19-31 had a life of luxury, enjoying all the pleasures of the world, but he ignored the needs of Lazarus, a poor beggar. Upon his death, he found himself in torment, while Lazarus was comforted in Abraham’s bosom. Jesus uses this parable to demonstrate the tragic end of those who live for worldly pleasure without regard for God and His Kingdom.

The World Is Passing Away

The Bible is clear that the world and all its desires are temporary.

In 1 John 2:17, it says,

“The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.”

This highlights the fleeting nature of worldly pursuits. Everything in this world our possessions, our achievements, our pleasures will eventually fade away, but the will of God and those who do it will endure forever.

Jesus asks in

Mark 8:36 (NIV),

“What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?”

This is a stark reminder that eternal life, not earthly pleasures, should be our focus. Gaining wealth, fame, or worldly pleasure can’t compare to the value of your soul. The rich man, despite his worldly riches, could not escape the consequences of his sin. His possessions were meaningless in the face of eternity.

What Are You Living For?

The Bible continually asks us to evaluate our priorities. Are you a friend of God, or have you aligned yourself with the world? If you still find yourself caught up in the pursuits of this world whether it’s indulgence in sin, the desire for wealth, fame, or the fleeting pleasures of life then you are, in essence, an enemy of God.

However, the good news is that God is merciful. If you haven’t yet accepted Christ, today is the day to change. Repent turn away from your sin and seek baptism by immersion in water in the name of Jesus, as described in Acts 2:38. Peter commands in Acts 2:38 (NKJV),

“Repent, and let every one of you be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins; and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.”

This is the step toward becoming a true friend of God.

Conclusion: Eternal Choices

The Bible calls us to be careful with the choices we make. While the world offers temporary pleasures, it can never offer eternal life.

1 Corinthians 10:11 (NKJV) reminds us,

“Now all these things happened to them as examples, and they were written for our admonition, upon whom the ends of the ages have come.”

These examples of the past serve as a warning to us.

Question: Are you a friend of God, or an enemy of God? If you’re still clinging to the things of this world whether it’s materialism, sin, or any form of worldliness then you are standing in opposition to God. But if you accept Jesus today, you can be reconciled to Him and become His true friend.

Maranatha!


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