Today, many people believe that to be forgiven by God, you must be led in a special “sinner’s prayer” or “prayer of repentance.” While there is nothing wrong with such a prayer when offered sincerely, repeating words alone does not save anyone. Sadly, some people assume they are saved just because they once said such a prayer—yet there has been no real change in their lives. But according to the Bible, forgiveness does not come from words alone—it comes from a truly repentant heart.
Let’s reflect on a powerful encounter between Jesus and a sinful woman in Luke 7. In this story, Jesus reveals what true repentance looks like—not through a formal prayer, but through deep sorrow and surrender.
Luke 7:37–38
“A woman in that town who lived a sinful life learned that Jesus was eating at the Pharisee’s house, so she came there with an alabaster jar of perfume.
As she stood behind him at his feet weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears. Then she wiped them with her hair, kissed them and poured perfume on them.”
This woman didn’t recite a prayer. She didn’t say anything aloud. Yet her brokenness, tears, and worship expressed a heart of true repentance.
Luke 7:47–48
“Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven—as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little.”
Then Jesus said to her, “Your sins are forgiven.”
Notice carefully: Jesus didn’t say, “I forgive you,” but “Your sins are forgiven”—indicating that the forgiveness had already taken place in the spiritual realm. He was declaring a heavenly reality based on what He saw in her heart.
When people heard Jesus say “Your sins are forgiven,” they were often offended, thinking He was blaspheming by acting as if He were God. This is exactly what happened in another passage:
Mark 2:5–7
“When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralyzed man, ‘Son, your sins are forgiven.’
Now some teachers of the law were sitting there, thinking to themselves,
‘Why does this fellow talk like that? He’s blaspheming! Who can forgive sins but God alone?’”
But Jesus wasn’t making things up. He was simply speaking what He saw God the Father already doing. Jesus explains this in:
John 5:19
“Very truly I tell you, the Son can do nothing by himself; he can do only what he sees his Father doing, because whatever the Father does the Son also does.”
So when Jesus said “Your sins are forgiven,” He wasn’t inventing that forgiveness. He was declaring what had already happened in heaven because of a heart that had truly turned to God.
The Greek word for repentance is “metanoia,” which means a change of mind, turning around, or transforming one’s heart and direction. Repentance is not just saying “sorry”—it’s a radical change of heart and lifestyle.
Acts 3:19
“Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord.”
Repentance involves turning away from sin and turning toward God. Without that change, no prayer—no matter how emotional—can bring forgiveness.
God is not counting how many times you repeat a prayer or cry at the altar. What He’s looking for is a sincere heart that wants to leave sin behind and follow Christ.
Someone may have been a murderer, thief, or immoral person—but if they truly repent and say in their heart, “Lord, I turn to You now. I want nothing to do with my old life,” and then they actually live that out—God will forgive them.
But another person may have attended church for years, prayed many “sinner’s prayers,” cried publicly, and even served in ministry—yet secretly continues to live in sin (sexual sin, pornography, lying, drunkenness, etc.). That person, despite appearances, has not truly repented, and therefore has not been forgiven.
Isaiah 29:13
“These people come near to me with their mouth and honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.”
Proverbs 28:13
“Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy.”
God does not forgive words—He forgives hearts.
Have you truly turned away from your sin? Or are you just going through the motions—saying prayers without real transformation?
True repentance doesn’t require a certain script—it requires a sincere surrender. Whether or not you say a formal prayer is not the point. What matters is whether you have truly changed your heart and direction.
Joel 2:13
“Rend your heart and not your garments. Return to the Lord your God, for he is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love…”
If you’ve been living with fake repentance or depending on outward acts to please God, this is your wake-up call. Now is the time to genuinely turn to Jesus. Not through empty words, but with all your heart.
2 Corinthians 7:10
“Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.”
Make a decision today that you won’t regret for eternity. Let your heart truly return to God—and receive real, lasting forgiveness.
God bless you richly as you seek Him with all your heart.
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