Greetings to you in the mighty name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Welcome to this reflection on the words of life—words that alone have the power to truly set us free (John 8:32, “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free” – NIV). Today, we’ll explore one vital biblical principle that can help us receive messages, revelations, and divine insight from God. This principle has deeply impacted my walk with the Lord, and I believe it will also transform your spiritual life. The Way We Speak to God vs. How He Speaks to Us When we want to speak to God, we usually go directly into prayer—perhaps kneeling down and presenting our needs before Him. After saying our piece, we often get up and carry on with our lives. However, God doesn’t always speak back in that same immediate, transactional way. He often operates on a different rhythm. This disconnect leads many believers to grow discouraged when they don’t hear an immediate or obvious response from God. But Scripture teaches us a critical truth—if we truly want to hear from God, we must learn to be still. The Principle: Stillness God’s voice is often heard most clearly in stillness, not in chaos or noise. The prophet Elijah experienced this firsthand. Though God had spoken to him many times, Elijah never truly discerned God’s intimate voice until he was completely still before Him. In 1 Kings 19:11–13 (ESV), Elijah encounters God not in wind, earthquake, or fire—but in a “low whisper”: “And behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind tore the mountains and broke in pieces the rocks before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind. And after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake. And after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire the sound of a low whisper… And when Elijah heard it, he wrapped his face in his cloak and went out and stood at the entrance of the cave.” Only then did Elijah recognize the presence of God and cover his face in reverence, realizing he was in the holy presence of the Almighty. Stillness Precedes Revelation We see another example in Elisha, when he needed clear instructions from God concerning the alliance of Israel, Judah, and Edom against Moab. Instead of rushing into prayer, he requested a harpist to play worship music—a way of creating spiritual stillness. “But now bring me a musician.” And when the musician played, the hand of the Lord came upon him. And he said, ‘Thus says the Lord, “I will make this dry streambed full of pools…”’ (2 Kings 3:15–16, ESV). Elisha’s request for worship music reveals an important pattern: praise and worship often prepare the heart to hear God. The Spirit of God came upon him after an atmosphere of worship was established. Moses Waited in Stillness Before Hearing God Even Moses, God’s chosen leader, had to wait in stillness. When he ascended Mount Sinai to receive the Law, he didn’t immediately enter God’s presence. He waited for six days before God finally called him into the cloud on the seventh day. “The glory of the Lord dwelt on Mount Sinai, and the cloud covered it six days. And on the seventh day He called to Moses out of the midst of the cloud.” (Exodus 24:16, ESV) This teaches us that revelation is not always instant. It often requires waiting in the presence of God, resisting the urge to rush. How to Cultivate a Life of Stillness If you desire to hear from God more clearly, you must learn to slow down and give Him room to speak. Don’t just pray and rush away. After praying, sit in stillness. Worship. Meditate on His Word. Contemplate His power and goodness. Let your spirit be quiet before Him. As you linger in His presence, you may begin to sense a divine stirring—a prompting in your spirit, a word of wisdom, a supernatural peace, a sudden understanding or instruction. That’s often how the Holy Spirit speaks. Stillness opens the door to divine encounter. Stillness Must Extend Beyond Prayer Time Stillness is not just for prayer moments—it must become a lifestyle. If your life is filled with constant noise, endless social media scrolling, chatting in groups, binge-watching shows, or always attending events and parties, you will struggle to hear God. Shalom.
Let us consider the words of the Apostle Peter: 1 Peter 1:13–14 (NKJV)“Therefore gird up the loins of your mind, be sober, and rest your hope fully upon the grace that is to be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ;as obedient children, not conforming yourselves to the former lusts, as in your ignorance.” The phrase “gird up the loins” is an ancient expression used frequently in Scripture to symbolize preparedness—being ready to act, alert, and disciplined. In biblical times, people wore long, flowing garments, and when they needed to run, work, or engage in battle, they would gather up the loose fabric and tuck it into their belts. This act was called “girding up the loins.” It represented a shift from rest to readiness. A Biblical Example: Exodus 12 A clear example is found in the account of Israel’s exodus from Egypt. On the night of the first Passover, God gave specific instructions through Moses: Exodus 12:11 (NKJV)“And thus you shall eat it: with a belt on your waist, your sandals on your feet, and your staff in your hand. So you shall eat it in haste. It is the Lord’s Passover.” God was instructing His people to be in a state of urgency and expectation—they were not to settle in or relax but to be prepared to move at His command. This readiness was physical, emotional, and spiritual. The Application to the Mind So, what does it mean to “gird up the loins of your mind”? It means to prepare your mind for action—to discipline your thoughts, focus your heart, and cultivate mental and spiritual alertness. The Christian life is not passive; it demands vigilance and intention. In the context of 1 Peter 1, believers are being exhorted to live in the full expectation of Christ’s return and the grace that will be revealed in Him. This phrase also parallels Christ’s words in Luke: Luke 12:35–37 (NKJV)“Let your waist be girded and your lamps burning; and you yourselves be like men who wait for their master, when he will return from the wedding, that when he comes and knocks they may open to him immediately. Blessed are those servants whom the master, when he comes, will find watching.” Jesus calls us to live in constant readiness—not in fear, but in faithful watchfulness. Readiness of Heart and Will Therefore, to “gird up the loins of your mind” means to align your will with God’s purpose, to be mentally and spiritually equipped to obey, to endure hardship, to reject sin, and to serve faithfully. It means being proactive in our faith, rather than reactive or sluggish. Are our minds ready for what lies ahead? Are we mentally prepared for the trials, the mission, and the return of our King? Are we sober-minded, fully trusting in the grace that will be revealed? 2 Timothy 4:1–2 (NKJV)“I charge you therefore before God and the Lord Jesus Christ, who will judge the living and the dead at His appearing and His kingdom: Preach the word! Be ready in season and out of season. Convince, rebuke, exhort, with all longsuffering and teaching.” The days are urgent, and the return of Christ is near. When He comes, He will come with His reward: Revelation 22:12–13 (NKJV)“And behold, I am coming quickly, and My reward is with Me, to give to every one according to his work. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End, the First and the Last.” A Final Reflection So, let us ask ourselves: Are the loins of our minds girded? Are we spiritually prepared for the return of Christ, for the call to share the Gospel, to endure suffering, and to serve God wholeheartedly? May we echo the ancient cry of the early Church: Maranatha! – “Come, Lord Jesus!”
You may be wondering—Are we really called to perform?The answer is yes, but not in the way the world defines performance. As believers, we are not called to dance on worldly stages or pursue applause for entertainment. Instead, we are called to “perform” lives of holiness and righteousness before an audience that includes both angels and fellow human beings. The Apostle Paul wrote: “For it seems to me that God has put us apostles on display at the end of the procession, like those condemned to die in the arena. We have been made a spectacle to the whole universe, to angels as well as to human beings.”— 1 Corinthians 4:9, NIV Paul uses powerful imagery here. The word “spectacle” in Greek (theatron) literally means a theater or stage performance. Our lives are like a divine drama being watched by heaven and earth. Everything we do is under observation—not for entertainment, but for eternal evaluation. Every believer is, in this sense, a performer—not for fame or financial gain, but to demonstrate the power of God’s grace through a life of obedience. And just like a stage performer is evaluated based on their act, so too will we be judged by how faithfully we lived out our calling in Christ (Romans 14:10-12). Let’s consider an unusual but enlightening example: snake charmers. In the past—and even today in some cultures—certain performers train themselves to handle venomous snakes, like cobras. They play flutes or use sounds that seemingly mesmerize the snakes, making them appear harmless. Crowds gather, amazed at how these men stand calmly before danger. Because of the risk and rarity of such an act, the performers are often rewarded with more money and attention than typical dancers or musicians. But this performance is incredibly dangerous. If the charmer loses focus for even a moment, the snake may strike—and the show ends in tragedy. King Solomon, in his earthly wisdom, wrote: “If the serpent bites before it is charmed, there is no advantage to the charmer.”— Ecclesiastes 10:11, ESV While this may seem like a secular observation, it holds deep spiritual truth. The Holy Spirit ensured this verse was recorded for our instruction. It reminds us that wisdom and vigilance are essential in spiritual warfare. As Christians, we are spiritual performers. Our enemy—the serpent, Satan—is always present, seeking someone to devour (1 Peter 5:8). The world is watching. Heaven is watching. And the question is: Will we finish our race victoriously, or will we fall because we lost focus? If we allow Satan to strike us—if we fall into sin and compromise—there is no reward for a performer who fails in the most critical moment. So how do we, as believers, spiritually “charm” the serpent? How do we neutralize the enemy’s attacks? In the same way that charmers skillfully play their flutes to confuse the snake and prevent attack, we must continually “play” our spiritual instruments with skill and focus. These “flutes” or spiritual disciplines include: Holiness“Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord.” — Hebrews 12:14, NIVHoliness sets us apart and protects us from spiritual compromise. Prayer“Pray without ceasing.” — 1 Thessalonians 5:17, ESVPrayer keeps us alert, connected to God, and strengthens us against temptation. The Word of God“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” — Psalm 119:105, ESVScripture equips us with truth, helping us recognize the lies and schemes of the enemy. Evangelism (Witnessing)“Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation.” — Mark 16:15, NIVSharing our faith keeps our hearts engaged in the mission of Christ and exposes the works of darkness. When we commit ourselves to these disciplines, Satan becomes powerless—like a confused serpent with no target to strike. He will have no foothold in our lives (Ephesians 4:27), and we will finish our race victoriously. The reward for such a life is not fame or fortune on earth, but eternal glory and honor in the presence of God (2 Timothy 4:7-8). Let us not reduce or neglect these spiritual practices. If we decrease in holiness, prayer, the Word, or witnessing, we give the enemy clarity—and a chance to strike. And if he succeeds in taking us down, the fall can be great, and the reward lost. So keep playing. Keep performing—not for man, but for the One who called you. Maranatha—The Lord is coming!
Biblical Guidance for Christian Youth on Courtship and Godly Companionship Welcome to this short but important lesson on youth and relationships. Many young people today rush into relationships without proper guidance, only to find themselves wounded emotionally, spiritually, or even physically. As a result, it is vital for a young believer to first seek biblical wisdom before engaging in any romantic relationship. There are three foundational questions every young person must answer before entering into a relationship: When is the right time to start a relationship? Who is the right person to pursue a relationship with? What are the boundaries and responsibilities within a godly relationship? A Message for Born Again Believers This teaching is specifically directed at young men and women who have been saved—that is, those who have repented of their sins, been baptized in water, received the Holy Spirit, and are living in expectation of the return of Christ and the coming Kingdom (Titus 2:11–13). If you have not yet received Christ as Lord and Savior, we urge you to begin there, for without Him, all other pursuits—including relationships—are built on unstable ground (John 15:5). Two Types of Relationships From a biblical perspective, relationships fall into two main categories: Pre-marital relationships – commonly called courtship, which is a preparation stage for marriage. Marital relationships – the covenant union between a husband and wife. In today’s teaching, we will focus on courtship—that is, the relationship between a man and a woman who are preparing for marriage. 1. When Is the Right Time to Start a Relationship? For Young Men: A godly young man should consider beginning a relationship only when he is spiritually mature and financially stable. The Bible says: “But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” (1 Timothy 5:8, ESV) Courtship is not for boys—it is for men. If you are still dependent on your parents, living under their care, or have no income, it is not yet time to pursue a relationship. You must first be able to care for yourself before thinking of caring for another. In today’s society, due to the length of education and economic demands, many young men begin to stand on their own financially by the age of 25 or older. This is a more realistic and appropriate age to consider entering a serious relationship. However, this varies depending on personal circumstances. For Young Women: A young woman should also avoid relationships while still in school. The ideal time is after completing formal education, and when she has attained spiritual maturity. Many young women under the age of 20 enter relationships out of emotional impulse or peer pressure, and later regret the decisions they made in their immaturity. “Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” (Proverbs 31:30, ESV) Spiritual readiness and personal growth are far more important than age alone. 2. Who Is the Right Person to Be in a Relationship With? For Young Men: Do not begin a relationship simply because a prophet, pastor, or dream told you so. Marriage is a personal and spiritual commitment, and you must take full responsibility for your choice. God may guide you, but you must discern and choose wisely: “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.” (Proverbs 18:22, ESV) Also, do not allow a woman to pressure or manipulate you into a relationship. Leadership in courtship and marriage is a God-given responsibility for men (Ephesians 5:23). For Young Women: Do not consider a man who is still a student, even if he appears sincere. A man who is not yet financially or emotionally prepared is not ready for courtship. Be cautious even of charming or generous suitors: “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness?” (2 Corinthians 6:14, ESV) If he does not share your faith and values, he is not the man God intends for you. 3. What Should You Do—and Not Do—During Courtship? For Young Men: If the woman you are interested in is not saved, your first goal is not to date her—but to share Christ with her. However, do not promise marriage just to lead her to Christ, or she may pretend to convert for the sake of marrying you. “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” (Matthew 6:33, ESV) Let her come to Christ because she desires the Lord—not because she desires you. If she truly receives Christ, begins to walk in the Spirit, and joins your fellowship, then you may begin a friendship that is respectful and transparent. For Young Women: Remember, it is the man who pursues the woman, not the other way around. Do not advertise yourself as seeking a husband. Remain pure, prayerful, and content in God’s timing. A godly man will recognize your value and pursue you with honor: “A prudent wife is from the Lord.” (Proverbs 19:14, ESV) Also, be careful when someone shows interest in you. Not everyone who desires you has good intentions. Even ungodly men are drawn to pure and virtuous women, so test every spirit (1 John 4:1). If he is not saved, introduce him to a male spiritual leader—not to yourself. If he refuses godly counsel, he is not from God. What to Avoid During Courtship Whether you are a young man or woman: Avoid all sexual activity—including touching, kissing, or being alone together in private settings. These behaviors stir up temptation and dishonor God: “Flee from sexual immorality… your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you.” (1 Corinthians 6:18–19, ESV) Avoid private visits to each other’s homes when alone. Always ensure accountability. Invite mature believers into your relationship for mentorship and spiritual counsel. Grow together spiritually. Read books or listen to sermons on biblical relationships and prepare for the responsibilities of marriage. When You Are Ready to Marry If, after prayer, counsel, and time, both of you discern that you are meant to marry, follow these biblical steps: Inform your parents or guardians early—do not surprise them. Let them know the person in advance so they can support and bless your union (Exodus 20:12). Inform your church leaders and let the relationship be publicly acknowledged. Allow the church to guide you through the proper process. Bride price (dowry) should be paid. In Scripture, the groom paid a bride price as a sign of honor and commitment (Genesis 34:12). This reflects how Christ paid the ultimate price—His blood—to redeem His bride, the Church (Ephesians 5:25–27). After the wedding ceremony, you are now husband and wife and free to enjoy the full blessings of marriage (Hebrews 13:4). Final Encouragement Beloved youth, wait on God. Do not rush into relationships. Focus first on your walk with Christ. When the time is right, He will bring the right person into your life. “Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.” (Psalm 37:4, ESV) May the Lord guide you and bless your relationships with wisdom, purity, and purpose. Amen.
The Bible warns us clearly in: Hebrews 12:14–15 (ESV):“Strive for peace with everyone, and for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God; that no ‘root of bitterness’ springs up and causes trouble, and by it many become defiled.” This passage speaks directly to believers. It teaches that if we do not pursue peace with all people and maintain a life of holiness, we risk falling short of the grace of God. When that happens, a root of bitterness can begin to grow within us. Once it takes hold, it not only troubles our own hearts, but it can also corrupt and defile many others around us. Let’s break this down. If we fail to pursue peace with others and walk in holiness, we become vulnerable. Bitterness begins small like a seed but if left unchecked, it grows deep roots and eventually becomes a stronghold in the heart. According to Scripture, this bitterness can contaminate many, like a spreading infection in the Body of Christ. Ask yourself honestly: As a believer, do I truly live in peace with everyone?This includes fellow Christians and even unbelievers. The call to peace is not optional; it is a command. The Apostle Paul reinforces this in: Romans 12:18 (NIV):“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” It requires effort, humility, and sometimes forgiveness even when it’s hard. But it is necessary because without peace and holiness, we lose sight of God’s presence. What Is Bitterness? In biblical terms, bitterness is a mixture of anger, resentment, jealousy, hatred, unresolved pain, and often a desire for revenge. It is not just an emotion; it becomes a spiritual condition. The writer of Hebrews refers to it as a root because it starts hidden and small but can eventually grow deep and strong, making it very hard to remove. If not dealt with early, bitterness begins to control our thoughts, emotions, and relationships. One of the most vivid biblical examples is King Saul. Saul’s bitterness began when he disobeyed God and the Lord rejected him as king. When he saw God’s favor shifting toward David, jealousy and insecurity took root. Rather than repenting and seeking restoration, Saul allowed bitterness to fester. He began to hate David without cause and set out to destroy him. Even after showing signs of remorse, Saul couldn’t overcome the bitterness because it had already taken deep root in his heart. His obsession with destroying David consumed his reign and ultimately led to his downfall (see 1 Samuel 18–24). Bitterness blinded him, robbed him of peace, and made him a slave to his own hatred. A Warning to All Believers This is why Scripture warns us to be vigilant. Bitterness is not just a personal issue it affects the entire body of Christ. Whether you’re a pastor, leader, church worker, or church member, this command is for all of us. We must strive to live in peace not just with people we like, but even with those who challenge us. This includes resolving quiet grudges, unspoken resentments, and hidden hostility, even in the church. Ephesians 4:26–27 (NIV):“In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.” Unresolved anger gives the enemy a doorway into our lives. Satan uses bitterness to divide churches, destroy relationships, and hinder our spiritual growth. James echoes this with a sobering warning: James 3:14–17 (NLT):“But if you are bitterly jealous and there is selfish ambition in your heart, don’t cover up the truth with boasting and lying. For jealousy and selfishness are not God’s kind of wisdom. Such things are earthly, unspiritual, and demonic.For wherever there is jealousy and selfish ambition, there you will find disorder and evil of every kind.But the wisdom from above is first of all pure. It is also peace loving, gentle at all times, and willing to yield to others. It is full of mercy and the fruit of good deeds. It shows no favoritism and is always sincere.” Final Encouragement Let us make every effort to guard our hearts from the root of bitterness. Let’s forgive quickly, pursue peace, and stay rooted in God’s grace. If bitterness has already taken root, don’t ignore it—bring it before God in repentance and allow the Holy Spirit to uproot it. Only in peace and holiness can we experience the fullness of God’s presence and be a blessing to others. Shalom.