This passage from Ecclesiastes presents a striking and sobering reality: a man may have all the outward signs of a successful life—many children, long life, material wealth—yet still live an unfulfilled and empty existence. If his soul is not satisfied with good things, and worse still, if he dies without even the dignity of a burial, the Preacher (Qoheleth) concludes that a stillborn child is better off than he.
This statement may seem harsh at first glance, but it confronts us with a powerful truth: a life without purpose, peace, and godly contentment is ultimately meaningless, no matter how prosperous it appears on the outside.
Two Types of People: Those Who Love Their Lives and Those Who Long for Eternity
The Bible often presents two broad categories of people regarding how they view life:
1. Those Who Renounce the World for the Sake of Eternity
These are saints who have denied themselves, choosing to live as pilgrims and strangers in this world. Abraham, though exceedingly wealthy, lived in tents, never attaching himself to earthly luxury because he looked forward to a heavenly city:
“By faith he went to live in the land of promise, as in a foreign land, living in tents… For he was looking forward to the city that has foundations, whose designer and builder is God.”
(Hebrews 11:9–10, ESV)
Such people—like Moses, John the Baptist, the apostles, and the prophets—did not seek comfort in this life. Their hearts were set on the world to come. Many of them suffered, were persecuted, and even martyred, yet Scripture declares they will be highly honored in the Kingdom of God:
(Hebrews 11:23–40 provides a full picture of such faith-filled lives.)
As followers of Christ, we are called to have this same mindset—to fix our minds not on earthly things but on things above (Colossians 3:1–2), storing up treasure in heaven (Matthew 6:19–21).
2. Those Who Prosper but Remain Spiritually Empty
This is the person Ecclesiastes 6:3 describes. They experience great earthly success: a large family, wealth, honor, and long life. Yet something critical is missing: satisfaction of the soul.
Despite their achievements, they remain discontent, always striving, always hungry for more—yet never fulfilled. They labor for years, amass wealth, plan for enjoyment, but never actually enjoy what they’ve earned. Some even die without receiving proper burial, a cultural disgrace in ancient Israel and a symbol of a wasted life.
The Preacher says that a stillborn child is better off than such a person. Why?
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A stillborn child never experiences the futility and sorrow of this world.
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It enters and exits life without enduring the burden of unmet longing.
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Meanwhile, the prosperous but unfulfilled soul lives a long life without tasting the goodness of it—a life of accumulation without enjoyment, striving without rest, and wealth without worship.
A Related Verse: The Tragedy of Unenjoyed Blessings
“A man to whom God gives wealth, possessions, and honor, so that he lacks nothing of all that he desires, yet God does not give him power to enjoy them, but a stranger enjoys them. This is vanity; it is a grievous evil.”
(Ecclesiastes 6:2, ESV)
This verse reinforces the same idea: true enjoyment is not in possessions themselves, but in the grace to enjoy them—a grace only God can give.
A Word of Warning and Hope
This passage is not only a warning but also a call to wisdom: do not anchor your life in what is temporary. Wealth, family, honor, and long life are good, but they are not ultimate. Without a relationship with God and a heart surrendered to Him, even the greatest blessings become vanity.
Jesus put it plainly:
“For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?”
(Mark 8:36, ESV)
Application: Store Up Treasures in Heaven
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If God has blessed you with resources, use them to glorify Him and bless others.
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Live not as one building an empire on earth, but as one preparing for eternity.
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Do not be enslaved by possessions, but let them serve your eternal purpose.
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Invest in what endures: faith, love, truth, the Gospel, and godliness.
The “treasure” warned against here is not your basic savings or wise financial stewardship. Rather, it is a lifestyle that hoards and trusts in wealth, refusing to let go, living as if earth is your forever home.
“Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth… but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven…”
(Matthew 6:19–20, ESV)
Conclusion
Ecclesiastes 6:3 challenges us to evaluate the true meaning of life. What is the point of earthly success if it leaves the soul empty? A life without God, no matter how long or prosperous, is ultimately a tragedy. But a life lived with eternal purpose, even in poverty or obscurity, is a treasure in God’s sight.
May we live as sojourners, not settlers—investing not in what fades, but in what lasts forever.
Shalom.