“Without wood a fire goes out, and where there is no whisperer, quarreling ceases.”— Proverbs 26:20 (ESV) Just as a flame needs fuel, so sexual sin only thrives while we feed it. Stop supplying its “wood,” and it inevitably dies. 1. God’s Gift of Free Will and Human Responsibility Created in God’s Image:We are made “in the image of God” (Gen. 1:27). This includes rationality and freedom—the capacity to choose good or evil. No Coercion Even by God:Though omnipotent, God never overrides our will. He honors the freedom He gave us (cf. Deut. 30:19–20). Personal Accountability:Scripture repeatedly affirms that each will “give an account” for their own deeds (Rom. 14:12; 2 Cor 5:10). If God forces no one, neither can Satan. 2. The Holy Spirit’s Role: Conviction, Guidance, and Empowerment Conviction of Sin:Jesus promised the Spirit would “convict the world concerning sin, righteousness, and judgment” (John 16:8). Sexual sin particularly grieves Him (Eph. 4:30). Sanctification Process:The Spirit not only convicts but empowers obedience (Gal. 5:16–18). As we yield daily—“walking by the Spirit”—we bear the fruit of self-control (Gal. 5:22–23). Habitual Dependence:Our cooperation (synergy) with the Spirit transforms patterns of thought and desire over time (Phil. 2:12–13). 3. How Satan “Fuels” Lust — Four Primary Channels Pornography & Explicit Media Spiritual Pollution: “Fill your minds with whatever is true, honorable… and think about these things” (Phil. 4:8). Entrapping Snare: “Every excessive and impure urge” is a form of idolatry, enslaving rather than satisfying (Col. 3:5–6). Corrupt Conversations Grievous Influence: “Bad company ruins good morals” (1 Cor 15:33). Renewing the Mind: We must “take every thought captive to Christ” and replace worldly talk with “psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs” (2 Cor 10:5; Eph. 5:19). Immodest Apparel Heart Revealed: Clothing often reflects the heart’s motives (Matt. 15:18–20). Provocative dress can foster lust in self and others. Holiness of the Body: Our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit—called to honor God in word and deed (1 Cor 6:19–20). Worldly Music & Entertainment Emotional Manipulation: Music and film shape affections. Paul warns believers not to “grieve” the Spirit by filling hearts with impurity (Eph. 4:29–30). Feeding the Flesh: Constant exposure to sensual stimuli “gives the flesh no opportunity” to be crucified (Gal. 5:24). 4. Theological Foundations for Victory Union with Christ:Through faith, we are “crucified with Christ” and “no longer live” but Christ lives in us (Gal. 2:20). Our old lusts are reckoned dead in Him. Putting Off & Putting On:Scripture commands “put off” sexual immorality and “put on” compassion, kindness, and self-control (Col. 3:5, 12–14). Armor of God:We stand firm by “girding the waist with truth” and “having shod your feet with readiness” from the gospel (Eph. 6:14–15)—practical truths applied to our sexuality. 5. Practical Steps of “Cutting Off the Fuel” Decisive Break Remove access to pornography, unsubscribing from channels, deleting apps and browser history (Matt. 5:29–30). Accountability Relationships Confess to trusted brothers/sisters and invite prayer (James 5:16). Fill & Occupy Replace idle time with Scripture, prayer, and edifying fellowship (Ps. 1:2–3; Acts 2:42). Mind Renewal Meditate daily on passages about purity (e.g., Phil. 4:8; Psalm 119:9–11). Reliance on Grace In weakness, cling to Christ’s finished work. His grace is “sufficient” in our struggles (2 Cor 12:9). Conclusion “Fire goes out for lack of wood, and where there is no whisperer, quarreling ceases” (Prov. 26:20). Likewise, sexual sin dies when you stop feeding it. Trust the Spirit’s transforming work, take up the armor of truth and purity, and walk in the freedom Christ won for you.
When the Pharisees asked Jesus when the Kingdom of God would come, He answered: “The Kingdom of God does not come by observation; nor will they say, ‘See here!’ or ‘See there!’ For indeed, the Kingdom of God is within you.”(Luke 17:20–21) At the time, many people expected that the Kingdom of God would suddenly appear in a visible, dramatic way. But Jesus made it clear: the Kingdom is already present—within and among those who believe. It is accessible, but it must be personally possessed. Like a hidden treasure, it must be diligently sought. “The Kingdom of Heaven is like treasure hidden in a field. When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in his joy went and sold all he had and bought that field.”(Matthew 13:44) When Jesus said: “But seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.”(Matthew 6:33) He was pointing us to something deeper. Anything that must be “sought” implies it is not immediately obvious or easily attained. It requires effort, intentionality, and perseverance. Giving your life to Jesus is not the end, but the beginning. It’s like enrolling in the first grade—you’ve started a lifelong journey, not yet reached maturity. Walking in the Kingdom requires continual growth and discipleship. The Effort Required to Obtain the Kingdom Jesus emphasized the spiritual struggle involved: “From the days of John the Baptist until now the Kingdom of Heaven suffers violence, and the violent take it by force.”(Matthew 11:12) This is not about physical violence, but about spiritual determination and urgency. Just as financial wealth is not gained by idle dreaming, the Kingdom is not obtained through wishful thinking. It requires spiritual diligence—seeking, learning, and growing daily. Paul gave Timothy this instruction: “Be diligent to present yourself approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.”(2 Timothy 2:15) Complacency in spiritual matters is dangerous. Like students who advance through grades, Christians must also progress in faith and understanding. Jesus warned against spiritual laziness using the parable of the ten virgins: (Read Matthew 25:1–13) The five foolish virgins carried lamps but had no extra oil. They were unprepared when the bridegroom came. In the same way, we must daily refill our spiritual “oil” through prayer, Scripture reading, and obedience. How Do We Seek the Kingdom? We seek the Kingdom through intentional spiritual practices: “Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation.”(1 Peter 2:2) “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be filled.”(Matthew 5:6) “Search for [wisdom] as for silver, and seek it as hidden treasures.”(Proverbs 2:4) “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”(Romans 12:2) Jesus compared a diligent disciple to a wise householder: “Every scribe instructed concerning the Kingdom of Heaven is like a householder who brings out of his treasure things new and old.”(Matthew 13:52) The Rewards of Attaining the Kingdom When the Kingdom takes root in your life: You are no longer swayed by false doctrines. “Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching…”(Ephesians 4:14) You gain spiritual discernment and a deeper relationship with God. You lay hold of eternal promises: “Then I saw ‘a new heaven and a new earth,’ for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away…”(Revelation 21:1–7) Jesus promised His faithful apostles: “Assuredly I say to you, that in the regeneration, when the Son of Man sits on the throne of His glory, you who have followed Me will also sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel.”(Matthew 19:28) To the church in Laodicea, Jesus said: “To him who overcomes I will grant to sit with Me on My throne, as I also overcame and sat down with My Father on His throne.”(Revelation 3:21) These special honors are not for every believer but for those who overcome: “Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your calling and election sure, for if you do these things, you will never stumble.”(2 Peter 1:10) And finally, Jesus gave this warning and promise: “Behold, I am coming quickly, and My reward is with Me, to give to each one according to his work.”(Revelation 22:12) A Final Call Beloved, now is the time to strive for the Kingdom. It is a treasure of incomparable value, worth every sacrifice. Hold on to what you have, so that no one may steal your crown. “Hold fast what you have, that no one may take your crown.”(Revelation 3:11) “Make every effort to confirm your calling and election, for if you do these things, you will never stumble.”(2 Peter 1:10)