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What Are Spirits of the Dead (Mizimu)?

Do They Really Exist? And How Should We Guard Ourselves Against Them?

In many African traditional belief systems, mizimu refers to the spirits of deceased individuals—souls believed to return to the land of the living. These spirits are thought either to return of their own will or to be summoned by someone with the intent of resolving unresolved issues, offering guidance, or even seeking revenge for wrongs suffered before death.

But what does the Bible say about these beliefs?
Do the spirits of the dead (mizimu) truly exist and operate as some claim?

Biblically, the answer is no.
There is no Scriptural support for the idea that human spirits can return from the dead or be called upon by the living to solve earthly problems. Once a person dies, their soul departs permanently from this world and enters eternity—either in the presence of God or in separation from Him.

Hebrews 9:27 (ESV) clearly states:

And just as it is appointed for man to die once, and after that comes judgment.”

This passage affirms that death is final in terms of earthly existence. There are no spiritual “visitations” from the dead—no second chances or lingering presences of human souls on earth.

What About the Story of Saul and the Spirit of Samuel?

Some might point to the Old Testament account in 1 Samuel 28, where King Saul, in desperation, sought out a medium (the witch of Endor) to summon the prophet Samuel. The spirit appeared and rebuked Saul, foretelling his impending death.

While this incident is unique, it does not legitimize necromancy or the belief in roaming spirits. In fact, the Law strictly forbade any interaction with the dead:

Deuteronomy 18:10–12 (NIV) says:

Let no one be found among you… who practices divination or sorcery, interprets omens, engages in witchcraft… or who consults the dead. Anyone who does these things is detestable to the Lord.”

Moreover, after Christ’s death and resurrection, all authority over death and the grave was transferred to Him. The enemy no longer holds the keys to the realm of the dead.

Revelation 1:18 (NIV):

I am the Living One; I was dead, and now look, I am alive forever and ever! And I hold the keys of death and Hades.”

So What Are These Apparitions That Look Like the Dead?

If the dead cannot return, then what are people seeing or experiencing when they claim to have encountered a deceased loved one?

The answer is: these are deceiving spirits—unclean demons that impersonate the dead.

The Bible warns us that Satan and his demons are masters of disguise.

2 Corinthians 11:14 (ESV):

And no wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light.”

If the devil can appear as an angel, how much easier is it for him or his demons to mimic the voice or appearance of a departed family member? These spirits aim to deceive, mislead, and ultimately draw people away from the truth of the Gospel.

Many cultures end up venerating these apparitions, believing they are honoring their ancestors, when in fact they are unknowingly engaging with demonic spirits. This opens the door to spiritual oppression and bondage.

Psalm 106:37–38 (NIV):

They sacrificed their sons and their daughters to false gods. They shed innocent blood… whom they sacrificed to the idols of Canaan, and the land was desecrated by their blood.”

Though we may not physically sacrifice today, spiritual deception and worship of false spirits is just as defiling.

How Can We Guard Ourselves?

The only true protection from these deceiving spirits is found in Jesus Christ. Outside of Christ, people are vulnerable to spiritual deception and the influence of demonic forces.

Ephesians 6:11–12 (ESV):

Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against… the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.”

If you have not yet received salvation through Jesus, now is the time. Only in Him is there true authority over evil spirits and power to discern truth from deception. Those who are in Christ are covered by His blood and protected by the Holy Spirit.

Let us be vigilant. Let us seek biblical understanding, lest we unknowingly give worship to Satan while thinking we are honoring God.

Hosea 4:6 (NKJV):

My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.”


May the Lord bless you and give you discernment.
Maranatha—Come, Lord Jesus.

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Why Was Elijah Called “Elijah the Tishbite”?

Understanding the Man and His Mission

Many people wonder about Elijah’s title: “Elijah the Tishbite.” Was Tishbite his father’s name? No, it wasn’t a family name. Rather, it refers to his place of origin—Tishbe, a small town in Gilead, on the eastern side of the Jordan River. Today, this area falls within the modern nation of Jordan.

Just as someone from Nazareth is called a Nazarene (like Jesus in Matthew 2:23), or someone from Samaria is called a Samaritan (like the good Samaritan in Luke 10:33), Elijah was called a Tishbite because he came from Tishbe.

The Bible introduces him this way in:

1 Kings 17:1 (ESV)

“Now Elijah the Tishbite, of Tishbe in Gilead, said to Ahab, ‘As the LORD, the God of Israel, lives, before whom I stand, there shall be neither dew nor rain these years, except by my word.’”

This passage marks Elijah’s sudden appearance on the scene during a time of deep spiritual apostasy in Israel under King Ahab and Queen Jezebel. Though we know little about his background—no record of parents, childhood, marriage, or children—his spiritual identity is powerful and clear.


The Power of Prayer in Elijah’s Life

One of the most striking characteristics of Elijah was his devotion to prayer. Though God used him to perform mighty miracles—calling down fire from heaven (1 Kings 18:38), raising the dead (1 Kings 17:22), and parting the Jordan (2 Kings 2:8)—what truly set Elijah apart was his faith-filled, fervent prayer life.

The New Testament affirms this:

James 5:16–18 (ESV)

“The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.
Elijah was a man with a nature like ours, and he prayed fervently that it might not rain, and for three years and six months it did not rain on the earth.
Then he prayed again, and heaven gave rain, and the earth bore its fruit.”

This passage highlights a profound theological truth: Elijah was not a divine being—he was human, just like us. Yet God responded to his prayers because he prayed earnestly and in righteousness. This shows us that prayer is not limited to prophets or spiritual elites. Any believer walking in righteousness can pray with power and effect.


What We Can Learn from Elijah

  1. Prayer is powerful and accessible. You don’t need to be perfect—just faithful and earnest. (Hebrews 11:6)
  2. Faith must be active. Elijah spoke boldly to kings, but he also retreated to pray in private. His power came from intimacy with God. (1 Kings 19:11–13)
  3. God uses ordinary people. Elijah wasn’t an angel or superhuman. He was a man, just like us—his effectiveness came from his relationship with God.

Encouragement for Today

As believers, we are called to imitate this kind of faith and discipline. We should become people who pray not just occasionally, but fervently—with persistence and boldness. And we should pray not only for ourselves but for one another.

James 5:16 (ESV)

“Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.”


May the Lord give us the zeal and boldness of Elijah, to stand in truth, to pray in faith, and to walk in righteousness.

Maranatha – Come, Lord Jesus! (Revelation 22:20)

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Who Was Baal?

Baal was a prominent pagan deity worshiped by the Canaanites and the people of Tyre and Sidon. According to Canaanite mythology, Baal was believed to be the son of El, the chief god, and Asherah, his consort. Baal came to be revered as a powerful god, central to the religious systems of these ancient cultures.

The name Baal literally means “lord” or “master.” He was regarded as the god of fertility, rain, and agricultural abundance. People believed that Baal controlled the seasons and the ability of the land to bear fruit. In times of drought or agricultural failure, worshipers would offer sacrifices and prayers to Baal, hoping he would restore the land’s productivity. Similarly, those struggling with infertility would turn to Baal, seeking children as a blessing from him.

Baal worship was widespread in the ancient Near East and eventually crept into Israel, despite God’s clear commands against idolatry. The first notable instance of this is found during the period of the Judges:

Then the Israelites did evil in the eyes of the Lord and served the Baals. They forsook the Lord, the God of their ancestors, who had brought them out of Egypt. They followed and worshiped various gods of the peoples around them. They aroused the Lord’s anger because they forsook him and served Baal and the Ashtoreths.”
Judges 2:11–13 (NIV)

Though initially limited, Baal worship among the Israelites intensified dramatically during the reign of King Ahab. Ahab, under the influence of his wife Jezebel—the daughter of Ethbaal, king of the Sidonians—led Israel into deep apostasy:

Ahab son of Omri did more evil in the eyes of the Lord than any of those before him. He not only considered it trivial to commit the sins of Jeroboam son of Nebat, but he also married Jezebel daughter of Ethbaal king of the Sidonians, and began to serve Baal and worship him. He set up an altar for Baal in the temple of Baal that he built in Samaria. Ahab also made an Asherah pole and did more to arouse the anger of the Lord, the God of Israel, than did all the kings of Israel before him.”
1 Kings 16:30–33 (NIV)

It was during this period of rampant idolatry that God raised up the prophet Elijah to confront the false worship and call the people back to Yahweh. The showdown between Elijah and the prophets of Baal on Mount Carmel vividly revealed the impotence of Baal and the absolute supremacy of the true and living God:

So they took the bull given them and prepared it. Then they called on the name of Baal from morning till noon. ‘Baal, answer us!’ they shouted. But there was no response; no one answered. And they danced around the altar they had made.”
1 Kings 18:26 (NIV)

Despite their loud cries and frenzied rituals, Baal remained silent—because he was not a real god. Scripture affirms that idols are nothing but the work of human hands and that behind them are demonic forces meant to deceive:

They sacrificed to false gods, which are not God—gods they had not known, gods that recently appeared, gods your ancestors did not fear.”
Deuteronomy 32:17 (NIV)

No, but the sacrifices of pagans are offered to demons, not to God, and I do not want you to be participants with demons.”
1 Corinthians 10:20 (NIV)

In truth, there is only one God—Yahweh, the Creator of heaven and earth. All other so-called gods are false and powerless. Baal was not a god; he was a demonic deception meant to lead people away from the truth.

The story of Baal serves as a strong warning even today. Worshiping anything other than the one true God is idolatry and an offense to Him. God calls His people to exclusive loyalty:

You shall have no other gods before me.”
Exodus 20:3 (NIV)

The apostle Paul also warns that idolaters will not inherit the kingdom of God:

Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men… will inherit the kingdom of God.”
1 Corinthians 6:9–10 (NIV)

Let us, therefore, turn away from every form of idolatry and worship the one true God in spirit and in truth.

May the Lord bless and keep us faithful to Him alone.

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WHICH JESUS HAVE YOU RECEIVED? WHICH SPIRIT? WHICH GOSPEL?

Blessed be the name of the Lord Jesus. Welcome as we reflect on the Scriptures.

2 Corinthians 11:4 (ESV) says:
For if someone comes and proclaims another Jesus than the one we proclaimed, or if you receive a different spirit from the one you received, or if you accept a different gospel from the one you accepted, you put up with it readily enough.”

When Paul wrote these words, he was not praising the Corinthian believers for their tolerance. On the contrary—he was rebuking them. His tone was one of concern and alarm. He was saying, You’re too willing to tolerate false teachers and false teachings!”

To put it plainly: Paul was warning them not to accept anyone who came preaching a distorted Christ, operating by a counterfeit spirit, or proclaiming a corrupted gospel. The Corinthians were tolerating these things rather than rejecting them—and that was spiritually dangerous.

This warning is just as urgent today as it was then. There are still “other Jesuses,” “other spirits,” and “other gospels” being preached in the world—and even in churches.


Who is this “other Jesus”?

The true Jesus of Scripture declared:
I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.”John 14:6 (ESV)

But the “other Jesus” says: There are many ways to God—through other saints, through religious traditions, or through various world religions.” This is not the Jesus of the Bible—it is a deception.

The true Jesus said:
If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.”Matthew 16:24 (ESV)
And again:
For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?”Mark 8:36 (ESV)

But the “other Jesus” says: You don’t have to deny yourself. You can keep your sinful habits. God looks at your heart, not your outward life.” This false Jesus demands no repentance, no obedience, and no transformation—and that is not the Jesus who saves.

This is why Paul warned the Corinthians: Don’t accept a false Christ. It is not a small error—it is a doorway to spiritual ruin. As Jesus warned:
For false christs and false prophets will arise and perform great signs and wonders, so as to lead astray, if possible, even the elect.”Matthew 24:24 (ESV)


What about the “other spirit”?

The true Holy Spirit is the Spirit of holiness. As His name implies, His work is to sanctify—to set us apart from sin and make us more like Christ.

Jesus said of the Holy Spirit:
When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth.”John 16:13 (ESV)

And Paul says:
But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.”Galatians 5:16 (ESV)

Yet many today are influenced by another spirit—not the Holy Spirit. This counterfeit spirit does not lead to holiness but to compromise. It does not convict of sin but excuses it. It does not lead to truth but to confusion. Under its influence, people indulge in immorality, embrace worldly fashion that dishonors God, harbor bitterness, and ignore Scripture. These are not the fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22–23)—they are works of the flesh.

Beware of spirits that masquerade as holy but produce no evidence of sanctification. 1 John 4:1 (ESV) warns:
Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God.”


And what of the “other gospel”?

The word gospel means “good news”—specifically, the good news of salvation through Jesus Christ. Paul wrote:
For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes…”Romans 1:16 (ESV)

The true gospel calls us to repentance, faith in Christ, and a life of obedience. It delivers us from sin and the coming judgment.

But the “other gospel” makes no such demands. It tells people what they want to hear, not what they need to hear. It tolerates unforgiveness, vengeance, and bitterness. It encourages believers to “pray against” their enemies rather than forgive them—contrary to what Christ taught:

But if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”Matthew 6:15 (ESV)

A gospel that justifies hatred, resentment, and spiritual pride is no gospel at all—it is a message from hell, not from heaven.

Sadly, many churchgoers today are filled with anger and unforgiveness, yet they think they are walking in the light because they attend church and follow religious routines. But without love, forgiveness, and holiness, we are deceiving ourselves.


So ask yourself:

Which Jesus have I received?
Which spirit is influencing my life?
Which gospel do I believe?

Is it the Jesus of Scripture, the true Holy Spirit, and the gospel that leads to salvation? Or is it a counterfeit—crafted to appeal to the flesh but powerless to save?

Let us heed the apostolic warning and discern carefully. As Scripture exhorts:

Examine yourselves, to see whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves.”2 Corinthians 13:5 (ESV)

The times are deceptive. Let us hold fast to the truth.

Maranatha—The Lord is coming soon!

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Who Made David Count the Israelites—God or Satan?

In the Old Testament, we come across two seemingly conflicting accounts about who influenced King David to take a census of Israel. One passage says it was God, and the other says it was Satan. Let’s explore both, and understand how they fit together theologically.


What Do the Scriptures Say?

2 Samuel 24:1 (NKJV):

“Again the anger of the Lord was aroused against Israel, and He moved David against them to say, ‘Go, number Israel and Judah.’”

1 Chronicles 21:1 (NKJV):

“Now Satan stood up against Israel, and moved David to number Israel.”

At first glance, these two verses seem to contradict each other—one says God incited David, the other says Satan did. So who was really responsible?


Understanding the Apparent Contradiction

The answer lies in understanding how God’s sovereignty and human agency work together, and how Satan can be used as an instrument of God’s judgment.

Let’s first consider that:

  • God is sovereign over all things, including the actions of Satan (Job 1:12, Job 2:6).

  • Satan cannot act unless God permits it (Luke 22:31–32).

So when 2 Samuel 24:1 says that God “moved David,” it means God allowed the temptation as a form of judgment against Israel, whose sin had aroused His anger.
When 1 Chronicles 21:1 says Satan moved David, it tells us who was the agent of that temptation—Satan—but not outside of God’s sovereign control.

This is similar to how God allowed Satan to test Job:

“The Lord said to Satan, ‘Behold, all that he has is in your power; only do not lay a hand on his person.’” — Job 1:12
God didn’t do the evil, but He allowed Satan to act for a greater purpose.


An Everyday Illustration

Think of it like this:
If someone says, “The car hit the man,” and another says, “The driver hit the man,” both are right. The car was the tool, but the driver was the one in control.

In the same way:

  • Satan was the tool,

  • But God was the One in ultimate control, allowing Satan to tempt David as part of His broader plan.


Why Was the Census a Sin?

At first, taking a census doesn’t seem wrong. But the issue was David’s motive—he was likely placing his trust in military strength rather than in God. This violated the principle found in:

“Some trust in chariots, and some in horses; but we will remember the name of the Lord our God.” — Psalm 20:7

And also:

“Woe to those who go down to Egypt for help, and rely on horses… but do not look to the Holy One of Israel.” — Isaiah 31:1

God wanted Israel to trust Him, not numbers or human power. That’s why this census brought judgment.


The Judgment and God’s Mercy

After the census, David realized his sin and repented:

“And David said to God, ‘I have sinned greatly, because I have done this thing; but now, I pray, take away the iniquity of Your servant, for I have done very foolishly.’” — 1 Chronicles 21:8

Still, God sent a plague as a form of discipline. But even then, His mercy prevailed:

“And the Lord relented from the destruction, and said to the angel who was destroying, ‘It is enough; now restrain your hand.’” — 1 Chronicles 21:15

This balance of justice and mercy reflects God’s heart—even when He disciplines, it is to correct and redeem.


What Can We Learn?

  1. God is always in control, even over Satan’s actions.

  2. Satan can be used as an instrument of divine judgment, but only by God’s permission.

  3. God desires our trust, not in human strength or numbers, but in His power.

  4. Repentance matters—even when we sin, God is merciful if we turn back to Him.


Final Reflection

If you haven’t received Christ yet, know that we are living in the last days. Jesus is at the door, and the rapture of the church could happen at any moment. If He returned today, would He find you living in sin—or in Him?

“Today, if you hear His voice, do not harden your hearts.” — Hebrews 3:15
“Behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.” — 2 Corinthians 6:2

Maranatha!The Lord is coming!


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WHAT DOES DREAMING ABOUT AN ACCIDENT MEAN?

Dreams about accidents can appear in many different forms. Some people dream of motorcycle crashes, others see car accidents, plane crashes, shipwrecks, or train collisions. Sometimes the dream involves someone being hit by a vehicle or cars colliding. Regardless of the scenario, these dreams carry one common theme: an accident.

To understand the true meaning of such a dream, it is important to first identify which spiritual category you belong to:

1. For Those Who Are Born Again (Saved Believers)

If you are born again—meaning you have placed your faith in Christ and are confident in your standing before God—then understand that God is using this dream to warn you about an impending event. It may be an accident you will encounter personally, or it may affect someone else, or happen in a specific place. Your role is to enter into earnest prayer and spiritual warfare, breaking the plans of the enemy that may have been devised against you or others. Use the authority given to you in the name of Jesus to rebuke and cancel these evil schemes (Luke 10:19; Ephesians 6:10–18).

Do not ignore the weight of this warning. God reveals such things so that you may stand firm as a soldier of Christ and contend with the spiritual battle before the calamity unfolds (Job 33:14–15, ESV: “For God speaks in one way, and in two, though man does not perceive it… in a dream, in a vision of the night, when deep sleep falls on men, while they slumber on their beds…”)

2. For Those Who Are Still in Sin (Not Saved)

If you are living in sin, having not repented or accepted Jesus Christ as your Savior, this dream serves as a serious warning. It signals that God’s judgment is near. The accident in the dream may symbolize sudden death or the impending consequence of being caught in your sins with no escape (Hebrews 9:27).

Consider the strong words from Ezekiel 7:6–10 (NIV):

The end has come, the end has come! It has dawned for you, the doom has come.
Doom has come upon you, you who live in the land; the time has come, the day is near— a day of clouds, a time of doom for the nations.
The sword will come against you, I will bring death upon you, and I will judge you according to your ways and punish you for all your detestable practices.
My eye will not spare, I will show no pity. Though they cry in my ears with a loud voice, I will not listen.’
The time has come! The day has arrived! Let not the buyer rejoice nor the seller mourn, for wrath is upon all their multitude.
The time has come, the day has come; it is the time of my anger; I will pour out my wrath on the sinful nation.
The sword has come to my people, the rod of my anger, to punish and avenge them. It will strike down the people of the land.”

This passage vividly describes the inevitable judgment awaiting those who refuse to repent. If you are living in sin—whether it be sexual immorality, theft, idolatry, or any other transgression—the “accident” in your dream symbolizes the spiritual destruction or physical calamity that awaits you unless you turn from your ways.

A Call to Repentance

If you see yourself in the second group, do not delay in turning to Christ. The Lord Jesus offers forgiveness and new life to anyone who genuinely repents (1 John 1:9). He could have allowed judgment to come suddenly and without warning, but out of His great mercy, He warns you in advance through these dreams.

Today is the day of salvation. Open your heart, repent of your sins, and receive Jesus Christ as your Savior. He will forgive you, restore your life, and protect you from the calamities the enemy intended for you (2 Corinthians 5:17; Isaiah 43:18–19).

If you are ready to repent today, you can start with a prayer like this:

Prayer of Repentance:

Lord Jesus, I confess that I am a sinner and I need Your mercy. I believe You died for my sins and rose again to give me new life. I repent of all my sins and ask You to forgive me. Please come into my heart and be my Lord and Savior. Help me to live for You from this day forward. Thank You for saving me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

May God bless you richly.

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WHY DO MANY MARRIAGES BREAK DOWN?

Part Two: The Woman’s Side

I greet you in the glorious Name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Welcome to Part Two of this article that addresses conflicts in marriage. In the first part, we examined the man’s side. Today, we turn our attention to the woman’s side, beginning from the conflict that arose in the very first marriage—Adam’s marriage.

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You, as a Wife

You must understand and accept this foundational biblical truth: the husband is the head of the family. The very first marriage was shaken through the woman, showing us that many marital conflicts—even today—originate from the woman’s side.

This happens largely because women can easily open doors for the devil to deceive them—leading them to believe they can make independent decisions without involving their husbands or even God. This is extremely dangerous.

Do not attempt this, woman of God. You will destroy your own marriage with your own hands.

Instead, begin to walk in obedience, as Scripture clearly teaches:

“Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.
For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior.
Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.”
(Ephesians 5:22–24)

The Theology of Submission

Biblical submission is not slavery or inferiority—it is divine order. Just as Christ submits to the Father in function (1 Corinthians 11:3), and the Church submits to Christ, so the wife submits to her husband within God’s structure of authority.

Obedience protects marriage.

If your husband asks you to return home early—obey.
If he asks you to cook—obey.
If he asks you to wash clothes—do not say, “Isn’t there a house girl?”—obey.
If he advises you not to engage in a certain activity—obey, because he is the head.

Remove pride from your heart. You are not the head. When you try to assume that role, the devil will offer you alternative strategies—such as seeking emotional or financial support from other men outside your marriage, thinking you are punishing your husband. In reality, you are destroying yourself.

This is exactly what Eve did when she sought counsel from the serpent instead of her husband and God.

“Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made.”
(Genesis 3:1)

The same strategy Satan used on Eve is the same one he will use on you—if you do not remain in your God-given position. Regret comes later, not during moments of pride.


A Sobering Truth About Identity in Marriage

A woman can never succeed by separating herself from her husband. It will never work.

A man may struggle and still survive, but for a woman, separation brings deep loss of identity and stability. Scripture teaches that the woman was created from the man:

“This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh.”
(Genesis 2:23)

Outside the covenant of marriage, a wife loses divine covering and order. No matter how much income you have, how intelligent you are, or how independent you feel—life outside your marital covenant is spiritual death.


Life in Christ Is the Foundation

All these virtues—obedience, prayer, holiness, forgiveness—are impossible without Christ.

“Apart from Me you can do nothing.”
(John 15:5)

The first step, therefore, is to give your life to Christ.


A Prayer of Repentance and Restoration

If you are ready to do so today, pray this prayer sincerely and in faith. Find a quiet place, kneel if possible, and pray aloud:

“O God the Father, I come before You acknowledging that I am a sinner and that I have committed many sins, and that I deserve judgment—especially for wounding my marriage.
But You, my God, have said in Your Word that You are a merciful God who shows mercy to thousands who love You.
Today I come before You seeking Your forgiveness and Your help. I repent of all my sins sincerely and with all my heart.
I confess that Jesus Christ is Lord and that He is the Savior of this world.
I ask that the blood of Your holy Son cleanse me from all unrighteousness now, that I may become a new creation from today and forever.
Thank You Lord Jesus for receiving me and forgiving me.
Amen.”

“If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come.”
(2 Corinthians 5:17)

If you prayed this prayer in faith, know that Christ has forgiven you. From today onward, take responsibility for your marriage.


Final Exhortation

Marriage thrives when divine order is honored. The breakdown of many marriages is not due to lack of love, but lack of submission to God’s structure.

“Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.”
(Psalm 127:1)

May God bless you abundantly.
Maranatha.

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*WHY DO SO MANY MARRIAGES FALL APART?

(Part 1: From the Man’s Perspective)**

In these last days, marital conflicts have become alarmingly common. For a marriage to last even a single year is something to be genuinely grateful for. Each day brings disagreements, unrest, and emotional exhaustion. Many begin to doubt whether the person they married was truly God’s choice—and may even see divorce as the only solution.

Before taking such a drastic step, pause and consider:

Have others faced a similar struggle? How did they resolve it? What was the outcome of their story?

Marriage Is a Sacred Covenant, Not Just a Contract

A broken marriage is often a result of both partners failing to understand their God-given responsibilities. Marriage is not simply a social contract—it is a covenant before God. Malachi 2:14 (NIV) reminds us:
“You ask, ‘Why?’ It is because the Lord is the witness between you and the wife of your youth, to whom you have been faithless, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant.”

Marriage is designed to mirror God’s relationship with His people (Ephesians 5:32, NIV). Like the journey of salvation, it is a lifelong journey of growth, sacrifice, and spiritual intimacy—not always a “honeymoon.” There will be challenges, disagreements, and moments when life feels far from ideal.


The Example of Adam and Eve

Let’s examine one of the most instructive marriages in Scripture—Adam and Eve. Their story is foundational for understanding God’s design for marriage and the dynamics of sin, leadership, and grace.

God personally chose Adam’s wife, forming her from Adam’s rib (Genesis 2:21–22, ESV), demonstrating that marriage is not a random pairing but a divine union. Initially, they lived in perfect harmony, enjoying God’s provision, peace, and companionship.

However, conflict arose when Eve disobeyed God’s command not to eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil (Genesis 3:6, NASB). Motivated by the desire to “be like God,” she ate the fruit without consulting Adam.

Theological Insight: The Fall introduces the reality of sin, relational brokenness, and hierarchical roles in marriage. God’s words in Genesis 3:16 (NIV) indicate this shift:
“I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.”

Notice that leadership in marriage was not initially intended as domination but as responsible stewardship and loving authority. It became a necessity after sin entered the world. Leadership is now tied to accountability, responsibility, and sacrificial love, not selfish control.

When Adam saw the situation, he willingly joined Eve in her consequences (Genesis 3:17–19, ESV). He was not deceived; he chose solidarity and obedience to God alongside her. They both experienced the curse of sin: toil, suffering, death, and relational strain.


Marriage Lessons for Men Today

  1. Your spouse is God’s gift to you.
    Adam never abandoned Eve, despite every reason to do so. Men must embrace their wives, forgive them, and rebuild their marriages. Remember, she is your rib (Genesis 2:23–24, NASB), a part of you, not an adversary.
  2. Conflict does not disqualify a marriage.
    A wife’s mistakes or rebellion do not remove the covenant. True love is tested in adversity, as Romans 5:3–5 (NIV) reminds us: “…we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.”
  3. Love is commanded, not optional.
    Ephesians 5:25–28 (NIV):
    “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her… In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.”
    Loving your wife is an act of obedience to God, not merely personal preference. Leadership is inseparable from love, sacrifice, and spiritual guidance.
  4. Forgiveness and patience are vital.
    Adam forgave Eve, and they rebuilt their lives together. Men today are called to emulate Christ’s patience and perseverance in marriage (Colossians 3:13, NIV):
    “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”
  5. A Christ-centered marriage thrives.
    Without Christ, even the strongest human efforts cannot sustain a marriage. Salvation, repentance, baptism, and the gift of the Holy Spirit empower a husband to love, lead, and nurture his wife in alignment with God’s will.

Practical Takeaways

  • Embrace your spouse: Marriage is a covenant, not a contract. Stand by your spouse even in conflict.
  • Love unconditionally: Leadership is expressed through love, not control.
  • Forgive freely: Past failures, mistakes, and sins do not nullify the covenant.
  • Build spiritually: Pray together, walk in faith, and invite Christ to be the foundation of your home.

Adam lived 930 years (Genesis 5:5, KJV) and shared life with Eve for over 800 years. Men today grow weary after just a few years of struggle—but God’s design works when we apply His principles.


Conclusion:

A marriage that faces conflict is not doomed. The question is whether you will follow God’s blueprint: love, patience, forgiveness, and Christ-centered leadership. Leave the world’s ways of solving problems through separation. Stand firm, love deeply, and watch God redeem your marriage.


Next in Part Two:
We will explore the woman’s role in marital conflict, how disobedience or pride can contribute to breakdown, and practical steps she can take to restore peace and love in the home.

Share this message—it can heal marriages and encourage couples to follow God’s design.


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WOMAN, DAUGHTER, MOTHER (Part 3)

This is the third part in a teaching series for women. In the first and second parts, we explored why the Lord Jesus, in certain cases, identified women not by their personal names, but by titles such as “Woman” or “Daughter.” There’s a divine reason behind this. If you haven’t had the chance to review those teachings, feel free to message us we’ll send them to you.

Today, we move forward to explore why some women were addressed by Jesus as “Mother.”


The Title “Mother” Is a Mark of Spiritual Maturity

To be called a mother is not a light thing it is a title of spiritual maturity. One does not become a mother by title alone. A mother is someone who has given birth or has taken on the responsibility of raising and nurturing others.

Jesus, during His earthly ministry, encountered many women. But not all were called “Daughter,” and not all were called “Mother.” These titles were reserved for those who had reached a certain spiritual stature.

Let’s look at a few examples from Scripture to understand what qualifies a woman to be seen by Jesus as a “mother.”


1. The Canaanite Woman  A Mother in Faith and Intercession

Matthew 15:21–28 (ESV)

“And Jesus went away from there and withdrew to the district of Tyre and Sidon.
And behold, a Canaanite woman from that region came out and was crying, ‘Have mercy on me, O Lord, Son of David; my daughter is severely oppressed by a demon.’
But he did not answer her a word.
And his disciples came and begged him, saying, ‘Send her away, for she is crying out after us.’
He answered, ‘I was sent only to the lost sheep of the house of Israel.’
But she came and knelt before him, saying, ‘Lord, help me.’
And he answered, ‘It is not right to take the children’s bread and throw it to the dogs.’
She said, ‘Yes, Lord, yet even the dogs eat the crumbs that fall from their masters’ table.’
Then Jesus answered her, ‘O woman, great is your faith! Be it done for you as you desire.’
And her daughter was healed instantly.”

Notice: This woman didn’t come to Jesus for her own needs. She came interceding on behalf of her daughter. She didn’t give up, even when she was ignored, dismissed, and even likened to a dog. She remained steadfast.

That is the heart of a mother to carry the burden of another as if it were her own.

Her faith, humility, and intercession earned her the recognition of Jesus. He acknowledged her not just as a woman, but as a spiritual mother a woman with the maturity to stand in the gap for others.


2. Mary, the Mother of Jesus  A Mother Who Cares About Others’ Needs

John 2:1–4 (ESV)

“On the third day there was a wedding at Cana in Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there.
Jesus also was invited to the wedding with his disciples.
When the wine ran out, the mother of Jesus said to him, ‘They have no wine.’
And Jesus said to her, ‘Woman, what does this have to do with me? My hour has not yet come.'”

Mary saw the potential shame that could fall on the family hosting the wedding. Even though it wasn’t her personal issue, she brought it to Jesus, revealing her heart of compassion and concern for others.

Jesus’ response might seem cold on the surface, but His choice of addressing her as “woman” (Greek: gynai) was actually a respectful and dignified term in the culture of the time. This moment shows Mary operating in mature spiritual insight acting before anyone else understood what was truly happening.

Her initiative led to Jesus’ first public miracle.


3. Mary Magdalene  A Mother of the Gospel Message

John 20:11–17 (ESV)

“But Mary stood weeping outside the tomb, and as she wept she stooped to look into the tomb…
Jesus said to her, ‘Woman, why are you weeping? Whom are you seeking?’…
Jesus said to her, ‘Mary.’
She turned and said to him in Aramaic, ‘Rabboni!’ (which means Teacher).
Jesus said to her, ‘Do not cling to me, for I have not yet ascended to the Father; but go to my brothers and say to them, “I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.”‘”

Mary Magdalene was the first to witness the resurrected Christ. She was the first to be entrusted with the gospel of the resurrection the most important message in history!

Why her?

Because she remained faithful. While others had fled, she stayed. Her deep love, loyalty, and spiritual awareness showed that she had matured in faith.

Not every woman received this kind of grace. It is reserved for those who have grown into spiritual motherhood those who can carry the gospel and nurture others into the truth.


Spiritual Mothers Are Like Sarah, Rebekah, Elizabeth, and Mary

These were women who had matured in faith, walked with God, and were used by Him to nurture nations, lead families, and guide others spiritually. They didn’t live for themselves but became vessels for others to encounter God.


So, Sister, Where Do You Stand Today?

When the Lord looks at you, how does He identify you?

  • As a girl ?
  • As a woman ?
  • Or as a mother  in the Spirit?

Before looking at the lives of great male apostles like Peter or Paul, first take time to study the lives of the holy women of God in Scripture. That alone can change your life and calling.


Long for the Honor of Being Called “Mother” by Christ

This is one of the highest honors Jesus can bestow on a woman it places her in the same category as apostolic messengers. To be entrusted with the care of others’ souls, to intercede, to disciple, to carry the gospel this is the calling of a spiritual mother.

“Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior… They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women…”           Titus 2:3–4 (ESV)


Your Calling Is Higher Than You Think

Rise up, woman of God. Step into spiritual maturity. Be a mother not just by age or biology, but by faith, intercession, and spiritual responsibility.

May the Lord bless you and recognize you as one of His faithful mothers.

Maranatha  The Lord is coming!

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What is Cedar Wood?

Cedar wood refers to a type of tree that was commonly found in the region of Lebanon, located north of Israel. While cedar trees grew in various parts of the ancient world, they thrived most abundantly in Lebanon. This tree was renowned for its superior quality and durability compared to other types of timber. Cedar wood was hard and resistant to decay, making it highly valuable for many uses, especially construction.

Lebanon became wealthy through the trade of cedar wood, as many powerful nations such as Egypt, Assyria, Babylon, and Israel imported this timber for various purposes, particularly building.

King David famously used cedar from Lebanon to build his palace:

2 Samuel 5:11 (ESV)
Now Hiram king of Tyre sent messengers to David, and cedar trees, and carpenters and masons, who built David a house.”

David also mentioned his own humble dwelling made of cedar wood contrasted with the Ark of the Covenant:

2 Samuel 7:2 (ESV)
You shall say to my servant David, ‘Thus says the Lord: Would you build me a house to dwell in? For I have not lived in a house since the day I brought up the people of Israel from Egypt to this day, but I have been moving about in a tent for my dwelling.’”

(Note: David’s house was of cedar, while God’s presence was still in the tent.)

Later, Solomon, David’s son, built the temple of the Lord using large amounts of cedar from Lebanon:

1 Kings 5:5-6 (ESV)
Behold, I intend to build a house for the name of the Lord my God, as the Lord spoke to my father David, saying, ‘Your son, whom I will set on your throne in your place, shall build the house for my name.’ So now command that cedars of Lebanon be cut for me. My servants will be with your servants, and to you will I give whatever wages you say, for you know that there is no one among us who knows how to cut timber like the Sidonians.”

Even after Solomon’s temple was destroyed by King Nebuchadnezzar, the second temple rebuilt by Zerubbabel also used cedar wood imported from Lebanon:

Ezra 3:6-7 (ESV)
From the first day of the seventh month they began to offer burnt offerings to the Lord, but the foundation of the house of the Lord was not yet laid. So they gave money to the masons and carpenters, and food and drink and oil to the Sidonians and Tyrians to bring cedar logs from Lebanon by sea to Joppa, according to the grant that they had from Cyrus king of Persia.”


Cedar Wood as a Symbol of Prosperity and Righteousness

In biblical symbolism, cedar wood represents wealth, strength, and endurance, much like gold. Two valuable materials frequently mentioned in the construction of the temple are cedar wood and goldboth signifying divine beauty, glory, and preciousness.

Just as cedar trees stand tall and flourish in Lebanon, the righteous are promised to prosper and endure before God:

Psalm 92:12-15 (ESV)
The righteous flourish like the palm tree and grow like a cedar in Lebanon. They are planted in the house of the Lord; they flourish in the courts of our God. They still bear fruit in old age; they are ever full of sap and green, to declare that the Lord is upright; he is my rock, and there is no unrighteousness in him.”

This passage beautifully connects the flourishing life of the righteous to the strength and longevity of the cedar tree. The cedar’s durability and grandeur metaphorically illustrate the spiritual vitality and lasting honor given to those who walk in righteousness.


Who Are the Righteous?

Being “righteous” in Scripture does not simply mean claiming to do good works or moral deeds outside of a relationship with Christ. True righteousness is positional and relational, granted by faith in Jesus Christ. It means having been justified by grace through faith, receiving the Holy Spirit, and living in obedience empowered by God.

But now the righteousness of God has been manifested apart from the law, although the Law and the Prophets bear witness to it— the righteousness of God through faith in Jesus Christ for all who believe.”
Romans 3:21-22 (ESV)

Anyone who trusts in their own efforts apart from Christ is not truly righteous before God. Only those who have received Jesus by faith, who have been baptized into Him, and who walk by the Spirit can be counted as righteous.


Final Blessing

Just as cedar trees were highly esteemed for their strength and beauty, so too will those who are righteous in God’s eyes flourish and be honored. May God bless us all to be firmly rooted in Him, growing strong and flourishing like the majestic cedar.

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